Why do my husband keep telling all our business to his little so called girlfriend?

Question

he tells her everything, even things he wont tell me, i don't get it

Answer 1

hmmm...naturally he is going to talk to his g/f (mistress).  I hope you are divorcing him.

Answer 2

ok

Answer 3

This makes no sense how do you know what he tells his girlfriend are you talking to her this makes no sense to me.

Answer 4

why are you allowing him to have a girlfriend....he should be kicked to the kerb......it is none of her business, and it definetly sounds like he needs to re evaluate his priorities  :  )

Answer 5

Learn to put your foot in his mouth....that'll break him of that.  

Answer 6

He likes her.  

Answer 7

Why do you tolerate this? Is she his girlfriend or simply a girl who is a friend? Either way, she should never come before you - he should never share things with someone else that he won't  tell you. You have a serious issue here - probably something that goes much deeper than a simple lack of communication. There is a level of intimacy that should exist between husband & wife that you two seem to lack. If you can't resolve this together, you should consider counseling. An uninvolved thirs pary may shed new light on this problem.

Answer 8

She should not exisist.  Unless you mean a girl that was a friend, BEFORE, the two of you became.  If she is a new addition, she needs to go.  Once you came in the picture, there was no need for friends of the opposite s*x.  If she was around before you, you need to tell your husband that it hurts you that you feel that he can tell her everything, but keep you in the dark.  When you became his wife, he was suppose to be able to tell you everything, his hopes, fears, dreams, likes, dislikes, not another woman.  It is a potential for trouble here and you need to try to get it fixed as soon as possible.