Why do my parents hate me?!

Question

My parents are the bitchiest people ever. I asked them if my boyfriend can sleep over at our house and rhey said no.Why do they keep saying this stuff?

Answer 1

Yea right...I was 14 once..and I know whats going through your minds.

Answer 2

WTF seriously! im not even that dumb and im 16! really?

because they dont want you having s*x and dont say you wouldnt because s**+*t happens. ta loca you must be out your mind!

Answer 3

i'm sure they dont hate you, its just inappropriate for him to stay the night at such an age. they love you don't just base their love on that.

Answer 4

I usually try to answer questions as helpful as possible, but I have to side with your parents on this one. With our society today, it is hard to trust your child. Unless you planned on getting intimate, I see no difference between seeing him during the day or during the night.

Answer 5

Parents love you , they are just protecting you and when the time is right with the right person when u marry it is the right thing to do.  Take it easy. ok Our parents are always right.

Answer 6

First dont call your parents the "bitchiest people ever". Show them some respect. Second Show your parents  that even at a very tender age you are responsible.  This way you will be able to earn your parents' trust and who knows maybe someday they will allow you and your b/f to "hang out together" as you claim.

Answer 7

those selfish b*****s dont want you to be happy! they dont want you and your boyfriend to have s*x!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... those *** holes!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

whenever a teen thinks thier parents are being to tough on them means that the parents are doing their job right!

yuh diqq?

Answer 9

ahahahahahhahaha your so stupid.

Answer 10

yeah listen chick any selfrespecting parents will not let thier kids boyfriend sleep over especially at the age of 14 when your hormones are kicking in!! are you crazy!!! r****d ALERT! god grow a brain. your parents dont hate you. how about pay attention in school so you can support a family when you get older. then when you have a 14 year old kid and they want thier boyfriend spend the night lets see whay you will say then!!

Answer 11

First it is your parents house, and both of you are under age. what did you think they were going to say. that is just disrespectful, for you to ask them that. so you need to accept and respect your parents wishes, after all they are right. what kind of parents would they be if they let that go on. when you reach 18 then you can do what you want to do, until then you need to listen to your parents, and they are not being mean.

Answer 12

you know they are just thinking of youre sake.............thats why they are so strick........

Answer 13

just because he cant sleep over at your house doesnt mean they hate you.  they always say this because girls and guys are different like if you tell them if you can bring your girls to a sleep over they would have to think about that.

Answer 14

Its not that they hate you, they are protecting you in the long run.

Your 14, at that age for both male and females their hormones are at their most "curious" state. Your parents are pretty cool if they even let you have a boyfriend at 14.

Answer 15

umm maybe becuz your 14 yrs old...that is probably the biggest reason....they dont hate you they are looking out for you and they love you.....think about it, if you had a daughter and she came to you with this same question would you say yes??? put yourself in their shoes and look thru their eyes....you should be lucky that you have parents who care enough to say no and thank them that you are allowed to have a boyfriend at that age......dont rebel it will just leave you in a very bad situation......they love you

Answer 16

if u wanna hang out,why do u wanna call your boyfriend to sleep over? sleeping is not hanging out.u are just 14.listen to your parents.

Answer 17

They don't hate you. They want you to learn responsibility and and ethics. No sane parent would let 14 year old boyfriend and girlfriend have a sleepover. (it''s called encouraging teenage pregnancy) They are trying to teach you their morals, and standards, which is their responsibility as parents. Try to imagine if you were responsible for someone as ignorant as yourself, what would you do?

Answer 18

Are you kidding me? If I were your parents and you asked me that, I would have laughed at you. You're parents don't hate you- THEY LOVE YOU! They are doing the right thing and trying to protect you. If your boyfriend stays over, that's just asking for trouble in the form of a three letter word- s*x. And at 14, you're not ready to deal with AIDS or a baby, both of which can occur with s*x. I would let your boyfriend come over and visit- even up to bedtime maybe, but it's just ridiculous to let him stay over. I can't believe HIS parents would let him if they would!

You are not going to be "hanging out" if you are asleep! So there is no need for him to be there while you are sleeping. Like I said- maybe if you are good and deserve it, he can stay there til your bedtime.

Answer 19

sweetie, if i was your mother i would say 'h**l no'!!

you're 14! you shouldn't be having boys sleep over your house at that age!

Answer 20

.........XD YOU ******* DUMBASS! XD

Answer 21

IDK probly because they dont want anything going on between u 2.

their probly not mean their just being protective

Answer 22

they 4got how it feels 2 b young

Answer 23

Um, I'm 17, and if I were a mother, I wouldn't let my child have there boyfriend sleep over.

Kids these days..

(:

Answer 24

your parents dont hate u. ur just to young to be sleeping with your boy friend in the same house. trust me ya parents have been there already and they know at your age you guys will get ya ways to actually sleep in the same bed. so its better that way

Answer 25

because boyfriends dont stay over at 14 year old girls houses.

duh.

wow thats the ******* dumbest thing ive ever heard

Answer 26

do u want ur bf to sleep in your room? coz if u do i understand why ur parents are saying no, u are only 14! u need to manipulate ur parents so they think that they are gettin what they want. you do this by not asking for things that u know obviously they will say no to!

Answer 27

umm im kind of thinking most parents would prefer there daughter to not have s*x in there own home. so ya think about that.

Answer 28

Because you want your boyfriend to sleep over and you're fourteen? Get real, woman. I'm sixteen and I don't think you should be having sleepovers with boys yet. Get real. Neither of you are even finished puberty yet.

Answer 29

I had a similar experience a few months ago.  I really liked the girl I was going out with, and asked my parents if they minded if I had her over some night.  They said no, and I was pretty pissed.  I thought they didn't trust me to make good decisions, or that they didn't trust her.

But what I've come to realize is that it's not an issue of trust.  My parents just didn't want to put me in a situation where it would be very easy to make a bad choice.  I don't think I would have done anything stupid, and I don't think they did either, but when it comes down to it, it's their job as parents to stop us from getting into situations that could easily end badly.

And plus, even if you do get your way, it's going to suck if you and your boyfriend ever break up because you'll probably regret nights like that when/if he's not your boyfriend.

Answer 30

Maybe it has 2 do with u guys being only 14, & not wanting u 2 have s*x...

Answer 31

really you think they hate you just for that? wow grow up and try to look at things inside their shoes. if you had young pretty daugter who meant everything to you, and first thing she says is i want to sleep with another guy at age 14, how would you feel?