Why do my parents trap me in the house even when im 15.

Question

even though, im 15 i still cant do stuff that my brother gets to do even when he was 7. i dont get to hang with my friends, nothing and they have ruinned my life. any reasons why?

Answer 1

my friends parents are exactly like that

they say that if she was a boy she would be aloud out later, they are probably worried about being like mugged or taken advantage of, or maybe its a trust issue, but parents are really protective  

Answer 2

It is because you are a girl, but this should not make you what to be a boy, God made you this way for a purpose. your parents are probably doing this because they do not want you to get into a difficult situation or some thing like that they just want you to be protected. You should feel thankful for their concern and tell them that.

Answer 3

have you ever thought to WHY they trap you, maybe you're doing something that is upsetting them. also boys tend to go out earlier than girl, girls are more naive than boys ill tell you that, my parents don't let me go out either and usually i just go to my cousins house, and sometimes they just can't trust you to go out by yourself, give it time, eventually parents stop getting overprotective, and then finally you can go out with your friends...just don't do anything stupid

Answer 4

well now days the way the world is now i don't blame them but i do see where your coming from too many no's breaths rebellion. so ask them if it's ok to hang out for just a little while an hour or two a day. your parents are just looking out for you  and they always have your best interest at heart, well i hope i helped you some wut.. be breezy!!!  

Answer 5

It's hard to understand right now, but they are trying to look out for you.

They love you and don't want to happen to you what seems to be happening to so many teen girls.  They don't love your brother any less but many parents are misguided in thinking boys are better able to take care of themselves.  They are really not trying to ruin your life.  Hang in there.  It won't be a long as it has been until you have more freedom.  Unfortunately, most of the ones you see "hanging out" dont' have anyone who loves them enough to care.  I went through it and made it and truly feel my life is better for it when I look at the predicaments some of my so-called friends are in.

Answer 6

ya its probably because you are a girl    

Answer 7

Ask them. Maybe they don't trust you. Have you done something to warrant this? You'll never know unless you ask. Keep your brother out of it when you do.  

Answer 8

they arent ruining your life, they are your parents and they know best. i know you hate to her that but until you are a mature adult and have kids of your own you wont understand.   you are 15....you are a kid.  

Answer 9

Yeah, I think you should just confront them with this if you haven't already. Ask them for a valid reason as to why they don't allow you to do things that even your brother gets to do.

Answer 10

My parents are like that i do stuff for them and i cant get stuff in return so i just do it idc she cant do anythign to me ooo ground me wtf w/e ill still do it..

you know i say just live life and do what you want( nothing illegal) lol i mean if you want to hang with friends DO IT