It seems a little absurd to me. People often seem to think that if they know someone who is adopted that they can speak as an adoptee, even when they themselves are not adopted.
This happens in real life an online. I don't really get it.
For example, I am not a man, but I know men and yet I would never dream of speaking from a man's perspective or answering a question asked specifically of a man.
Or it's like saying, I know what it's like to grow up in poverty because I read "The Grapes of Wrath."
What's up with this?
It happens all the time.
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