Why do other moms bash other moms on here because?

Question

they do not agree with their choices? What is wrong with some of this woman-we all make different choices for our own lives.

Can't someone give an opinion with bashing?

Answer 1

You know, I've learned that this is an internet forum, so if we put our questions out there, they are out there for everyone to see.  And that's when some immature insensitive people feel the need to put others down in order to make them feel like their lowly little life is better than someone else's.

I try not to let it bother me.

Do the same.  Ignore.  Weed out the haters and you will really find some honest, genuine and sincere people on this site. :)

Answer 2

I guess those people are perfect so they feel like they have the right to judge so harshly. Thats why I love the block feature.  

Answer 3

Because some people have far too much time on their hands!

I most certainly have my opinions on certain things, certain situations, but I don’t group ALL people under those categories. And I think many people DO put ALL people under the topics that they take most personal.

I’m against abortion but I think a person should have a right to choose. I personally would never get one (at least I think I’d never get one) but sometimes things happen. Period. To make it illegal? Yowza, that’s a huge friggen deal!

I know all too well what you mean. I’m a stepmom. I get it ALL the time! And when I’m defensive about people withholding visitation (just an example), it’s because I’m on the OTHER side of that stuff. Of a mother doing it to us when we’re good people, he’s a good father, and I’m a great stepmom. And we pay our child support. Sure, every situation is different, every person has different issues, and that’s exactly why I don’t bash ALL people withholding visitation because it’s a case by case basis.

People need to get off their high horses. When people bash others just because….it just shows how ignorant they REALLY are. Therefore I don’t take it all that much to heart.

Answer 4

no because people don't know how to be open minded and simply state their opinion, rather than saying rude things.  

Answer 5

KitKat-I was wondering what such a list would look like.  I think you left out:

Breastfeed

Bottlefeed

Co-sleep

crib sleep

CIO

Use a stoller

wear your baby

have 10 toes

eat your breakfast standing up

OR

Heaven forbid:

Love your children

Edit:  I never blocked some one before.  Kinda fun seeing the ghostbusters thingy come up next to her name.  I don't get angry at such people, they rather amuse me and I feel sadness for those who must be in her miserable life.

Answer 6

I just want to add that Ms. Wu is not against abortion.  In fact, her alter-ego recently asked a question about where to go to have one.  

To your question... Some people are just rude and ignorant, plain and simple.  Sad but true.

Aaron's mommy... that's the new WU BUSTER sign, LMAO!!

Answer 7

I have learned that to be accepted by all on this sight you must not be or do any of the following:

single

married

working

SAHM

rich

on welfare

rent an apartment

own a home

live in the city

be american

be british

live in a suburb

be a teen

be older than 25

believe in abortion

be pro life

believe in god

not believe in god

drink

smoke

allow your children sweets

believe in disorders like ADHD, ODD, OCD, or any other behavioral disorder

have a child whos gifted

have a child who isnt gifted

be outspoken

question society

believe in spanking

not spank

Which pretty much means we are all up a creek and bad parents in someone's eyes.

EDIT: Mrs Wu get off your high horse. I AM married and half the time id love to climb through this screen and show you what a resounding slap would feel like. Putting down good women to make yourself seem better earns that slap.

EDIT: Mozz im pretty sure there is NO Mr. Wu. Could you live with her for 1 day much less 10 years?

EDIT: and btw i should be getting thubs down for Wu bashing but Im starting to think it should be an olympic event. It has become my favorite pass time in the last week.

Answer 8

I can't see an answer from Mrs Wu! Anyway, yes, people on here can get very personal. I think it's the fact that thay are annonymous, they feel like they can say what the h**l they want to. If someone asks a question regarding something I don't agree to, I just will exit out of it and not bother answering. I wish people would do the same when they are answering mine.

Answer 9

Am I the only one here who would really like a word with Mister Wu?

Answer 10

Because the rest of society and your child has to pay due to your "choices".

It is a society's responsibility to speak up when it's youngest members are being short changed. Formula feeding, daycare and single parenting are poor choices that lead to consequences for all of us.

Answer 11

To make themselves seem better which in a lot of cases they are just as fake as the c**p they are talking but me I dont "bash" other women personally just some of their weakness and stupidity when it comes to a man cause i feel women should have a stronger heart and image than men instead of letting them tear us down

Answer 12

Because they have never been in our shoes.

I have always been a working mother because I'm divorced and I need to work.

I don't know what its like to be a SAHM.

Would I like to try, you betcha!

And many SAHM don't know what its like to be a mother who works outside the home. Or be a single working mother.

We don't know each other struggles or accomplishments or goals.

We do what works for us and we should respect it.