I realize that it takes experience to really know how to be a parent and raise a child. You learn and you realize your mistakes as the child grows and gets older. But it doesn't take a genius to know some of the basics about parenting. Some things are obvious - teach your child respect, how to act in public, how to act at home, how to read, write and spell, how to tie their shoes, etc. I have asked several questions, seriously looking for help on how to deal with my nine year old niece (husband's niece), and a couple of people on here seemed upset that I feel the way I do. She is horrible and does not know how to behave or respect adults. I do feel sorry for her to a certain extent, but what pisses me off is her family does not try to teach her how to act. They think it's cute and should be accepted because that's the way she is. Well, I don't have to be bothered with it. It's not my child. If they want her to act like a heathen then keep her at home.
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