Why do people always blame the child's mother for so-called drama?

Question

Why do they not consider the very real possibility that the father really might be an irresponsible jerk who is indeed not doing right by his children...and the girlfriends may merely be jealous and trying to stir the pot! I'm sick of that phrase "babymama drama"... as if it's always the mother's fault!!! It takes two to create a child...so why does it seems like society today always excuses these deadbeat fathers and blames the mothers?

Answer 1

Because most do not see the side you see and hear.But believe me I have seen baby daddy drama.Thank goodness I don't live it.

Answer 2

Simply because the law and everybody else don't want to look any further unless you have proof of what you are trying to tell everyone. Sometimes it is the mother but very very rarely.