Why do people avoid strangers?

Question

I had a lot of strange people I didn't know adding me to msn in response to a personal classifieds ad that I posted but most of them delete me as soon as they realize our interests are not compatible. Second degree friends that I have that I meet through other people reject me as a friend on facebook and so do fellow classmates that I haven't seen in more than three years. Why is this?

Answer 1

because the first advice your parents give you is : not talk to the stranger  

Answer 2

Sounds like you are connecting with people you are not compatible with. Try making friends with those that have things in common with you, don't let it get you down.

Answer 3

because u don't know the nature of strangers.so,people avoides the strangers.

Answer 4

Either you've changed a lot in the past few years since you knew your classmates, or you're misrepresenting yourself in your classified ads and on facebook. Could that be possible? Write out what your true interests are and be genuine. That should clear up the problem. You have to first be honest with yourself about who you really are before you can expect to have a real relationship with others.

Answer 5

Why do you want to continue a relationship with someone whose interests are not compatible with yours?

Second degree friends probably can't remember just who you are so to be safe they delete you.

Old classmates have moved on with their lives and they deleted you a long time ago.

Did you ever think that perhaps you are looking in the wrong places for friends? Go with people who have similar interests . Be much more selective as to who you invite to be your friend. This will make you more desirable. Try it you will find you like it much better.