Why do people complain when people die?

Question

every one has to die one day.

Answer 1

People get emotionally attached and to lose somebody you're close to or really enjoy being around or maybe somebody who seemed like it wasn't meant to happen seems unfair, leading to people "complaining". Srsly.

A better question would be:

"Why do people get annoyed when things are said behind their back, then when it's said to their face they react worse?"

Answer 2

Complain?!

That's the first time I've heard it put that way.

People miss those people they lose, it's got nothing to do with not accepting death. It's sad when you know you're not going to see someone again for the rest of your life.

Answer 3

Wow....I don't know. But I see where you're coming from but I don't want to die either. . .

Answer 4

you weirdo people have feelings you cant just forget about people if they die can you? x

Answer 5

I dont know really

Answer 6

People have yet to understand death.!  Death in this life may end, but it is the beginning to a whole, 'nother life! :D

I pray to God that when I die, my family and all the people I have known in my life,that think enough of me to come, will 'celebrate' my life!  I want them to have a great party!

I have lived a very full life.  I have done everything I have ever wanted to do,and mastered it.  I have been blessed beyond, beyond,  I have peace and happiness and most of all God!

I would like to be remembered; bringing joy to others and their lives.  That calls for a P-a-r-t-y!  Yeah!  :D

Answer 7

A lot of people never think about death or that their loved ones could die. So when it happens they are very upset and unable to accept it

Answer 8

You obviously either

1) have never lost a loved one or

2) are heartless.

Answer 9

Most people don't complain; they grieve.  There's a big difference.

Answer 10

You die & see how it feels if people dont complain or care that youre dead!..

Answer 11

You lose sosmeone who is important to you and you do not expect people to express their regret one way or another.

When my 93 years old mother died the most offensive thing that was said to me albeit with the best of intentions was, "Well she had a good innings after all." I'd losty my motherr and that silly sod was talking about cricket, for crying out loud sake!

Answer 12

some of us have feelings

Answer 13

We don't complain.

we grieve, we cry, we mourn for the loss of some one we love.

When someone you love dies, there gone, you miss them , your never going to see them again and thats sad you just want them.

Its what normal people do!

Yeah everyone dies one day but you don't expect it when your mum or your friend dies and it makes people hurt inside more than physical pain.

Have you never lost someone you love ?

or are you just completely emotionless ?

Answer 14

Very good question.  Just like people are born, people will die.  It's almost like we are born with an expiration date but we don't really know when it is.  As I grew up and was able to form my own opinions about death I realized that death isn't a bad thing.  Most of us will be passing on to a better place, it is supposed to be a time of celebration because we are going to better place and all of most of our lives we have been "waiting" for the moment we actually get to meet our "maker".  I've never understood why people complain.  I've kind of taken the view that there can't be too much worse than what we are doing to the beautiful life that God gave us here on earth, and the way things are going it doesn't look like it's going to get much better.  Why complain....complaining never helped or solved any situation!!

Peace & Love :)

Answer 15

some folks do not know how to cope let alone adapt/adjust to being or living alone esp if they lost someone that is either dear or special to them.  it's hard accepting a loss or death of a family member, loved one, significant other, or a dear friend.

Answer 16

If your best friend died, would you not complain? Or would you prefer to live a life where nobody complained if you died?

Answer 17

Exactly. Then they judge and hate God because "people died". DUH! People die! Some just die sooner than others!

Answer 18

I think it´s because they didn´t skip school the day they taught about love and handed out hearts.

Answer 19

Everyone dies, yes.  But that doesn't make the pain of losing someone you care about any less intense.  

When someone dies, it's final.  You're probably never going to see that person again, unless there is an afterlife of some sort.

Answer 20

It's not really a matter of complaining is it?  It's natural to miss someone when they are gone, and wonder what else they might have done in the lives had they lived longer, it's not a complaint, it's a feeling of sadness and loss.

Answer 21

I guess it is a natural response when you love someone. You want them with you.

Yes- everyone does have to die, but some people seem too go to early.

I don't think anyone can fully prepare for a death of a loved one. (loss causes pain)

Answer 22

Because they're greiving for a loved one, and complaining, or blaming the death, is the initial responce. When things go bad, and you have time to think about it, most people would think "why is this happening to me?" The fact that other people have it worse is little consolidation.

Answer 23

because they tend to think of their own loss rather than what the deceased has gained

Answer 24

if you're heartless as my friend has just said then i'll answer your question that people are not completely like you......

but if you want really to know why they complain i'll advise to wait untill you lose a friend or someone who you love much ( then you're going to find out the answer of your question automatecally)

ok?clear ...i hope my answer is clear because i think self_evident

have a nice nightmare

good luck

Answer 25

You're a snappy little crapper aren't you?

Answer 26

well a relative of mine died last week...it was most unfortunate as i had to cancel a holiday to attend the family funeral/fight...id much rather have been in Madeira....i can think about the person that's died anywhere in the world...i also sent flowers thru the Internet...so i didn't have to be there...and i wouldn't be now sporting a bruised cheekbone where someone decided to extol their grief on me with their fists and not there tears...

Answer 27

ye ppl die every 6 secinds and wateva, and 4 every person that does ther will b ppl GRIEVING for them. its natural, but not complaining. How can u complain that some1 has died? Hav u ever lost some1 close 2 u? For example a parent? then u'd understand.

Answer 28

.. erm..

they are hiding thier grief