I'm 41 and have no kids of my own. I do have a step-daughter, though Personally, I never had any overwhelming urge to reproduce. I like my life just fine. Although I like kids, I never wanted to have my own.
My extended family have gotten used to it, FINALLY, but it took a long time for them to stop asking about it. Co-workers and people who meet me for the first time though, always feel the need to inquire as to WHY I don't have kids. It seems so intrusive for them to ask and I don't like being put on the spot and grilled about it. There have been a few over the years who have asked point blank, "What is wrong with you? or "Don't you think that's selfish?", "You're not doing your duty to God and your husband?", "Who's going to visit you when you're old?", etc.......
Personally, I don't think that giving birth guarantees that you'll be a good mother or a good person and the media provides evidence of that daily. There's also no guarantee that your kids will visit you when you get old or that you will go to heaven because you had a baby. I think some folks need to get a grip!
Are there other women out there who have experienced negative feedback from others because of their choice to not have kids?
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