Why do people (especially teenage girls) think that having s*x is a good way to express your love?

Question

It is, in marriage.

But when you are 15, or 17 or whatever, wouldn't it be more loving to protect you and your boyfriend, emotionally and physically?

Answer 1

those girls seem ditzy and such, if you've ever noticed. its not a good way and you really should wait. if you look, there's 12 and 14 y/os who do that, too!!!! those people are throwing away their lives, bc if they get prego, then both of them are stuck with the hate and all.

Answer 2

Alot of guys want s*x from their relationships.  Their girlfriends think that if they give their boyfriends their bodies its the best way to express their love. A.k.a. they are giving the guys what they wanted all along. Buuut the guys end up breaking up with them because they got what they wanted.

Its all pretty mixed up if u ask me... =S

Answer 3

s*x isnt about love when your a teen , it wasnt for me (i know that sounds bad or  w/e)  , it was the thrill , the endorphin release and feeling of euphoria

i think what you mean is teens get love and lust mixed up , both powerful forces

*edit* im a girl btw but i have been told i have a mans view of s*x lol

Answer 4

First of all not all people think that way. Teenage girls can have respect for their bodies and think of other ways to express their love. The girls that do think that s*x is the best way of expressing their love are not always bad people. Just because someone has s*x as a teenager does not mean that there will be emotional or physical problems. Yes, there is a greater chance of that happening but it is not always the case. You can't stereotype teens. Not every case is the same.

Answer 5

i think the right time to have s*x is different for everyone. we dont all have the same religious backgrounds, morals, needs, etc. so i dont think the right time for me is neccessarily the right time for someone else. i do think some girls have s*x too soon when they are not ready emotionally or for the wrong reasons. I don't plan to wait until I'm married.

Answer 6

Heya

Im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We both expressed our love in other ways and s*x was just a bonus. We waited until i was 16 to have s*x. =] x*x

Answer 7

I agree with you.

I am a teenager and i only want to have s*x in marriage.. Not outside it or before it.

There's a lot more you can do to show someone you love them.

Answer 8

im 14 and i dont think s*x is a good way to express love to your bf...

Answer 9

It can be a good way to express your love, just not with most people.  Dumb little girls think that they're in love when they don't know what love is, and of course aren't loved back by the guy.

Answer 10

Because they haven't been told otherwise.

Answer 11

Yes, however hormones do take over.

Also, with the oversexualized culture we live in today, a lot of young impressionable minds are lead to believe that having s*x is completely normal, and pretty much expected.

Answer 12

i dont know lady wat do u think... they aint got no home training... they mamaz need to start givin them an *** whoopin... my kid wuddnt be havin s*x wen she in mah house. and if her *** get pregnant she best get tha h**l out coz i now i taught her *** better

Answer 13

Do you remember the teenage years? Well because I am fifteen I'll let yah know what's so "appealing" to us teenagers. We feel that everyone else is doing it, and half the time we don't know what we're doing. I could probably name ten people right now in ten seconds stating who I know have done it in 10th grade and such;; and some of them are my friends. I had this wonderful friend and she did it with her VERY first boyfriend after three months ... her thoughts were probably something like this "I don;t want to lose him, I love him so much" Honestly my outlook on life is very different then most teenagers. I'm more of a tease and a flirt then a relationship seeker. I don't want any boyfriends during my highschool career considering; I don't trust myself. I don't have courage in myself being able to say no when I need to. Gosh I would love to go out with someone, but I don't want to;; And another reason is probably ... HORMONES, ahha there I said it! People get caught up in the moment and sometimes don't know the difference between love and lust. Also .. the chances of being with a boyfriend or girlfriend after highschool is pretty slim, because half the people still don't grow up. Soon enough these people will be hit hard with the harsh reality of adult hood until people have this similar outlook on life ... s*x is going to be a very big issue of the teenage years and the reason for 16 year olds becoming pregnant... I hoped I helped.

Answer 14

Because no matter what they have been told they are full of raging hormones and curiosity and have had little in the way of moral parenting and are quite used to instant gratification and so have no self discipline and no little voice in their head that says 'STOP--Wait..think before you do this.'  There is no fear of consequence either.

Answer 15

Because most guys make girls believe that s*x=love, ("if you really loved me you would have s*x with me.", etc)..

And, have you watched music videos lately??!! The media has alot to do with it too.

Answer 16

Because the media is a very negative influence on them and makes them think that when it is incorrect. They should turn off tv and try facing reality. ( no offense, p.s. i am that age.)

Answer 17

true say but personally i believe its pressure...their bfs, media, friends and so on

and maybe their family dont set a good example

i mean look at the teen pregnancy going high

Answer 18

children are exposed at a young age to s*x. we have implied s*x in movies and tv shows, we read books about it, we have s*x ed classes, we read or see about stars and their relationships, and hormones start raging

Answer 19

Because there's so much s*x in music, on TV and in movies. And no one tells them otherwise.

Answer 20

Bravo for staying pure!

I agree with you... I think it would show true love to stay pure.

But todays society and culture tells us otherwise.

TV, Music, and Clothing Promotes Premarital s*x as something good and fun and ok

Think about the Victorias Secret comercials. Or have you ever seen Abercrombie or Hollisters models? Not good.

And with celebs like Jamie Lynn Spears having a kid at 16 no wonder girls and guys think it is ok. Yes hormones do play a part in it but staying pure till marriage has been done b4, its just that people are too selfish and knaive to agree

Answer 21

because they don't have a good role model at home.