Why do people get attracted to someone when they are already married?

Question

Why do people get attracted to someone when they are already married?

Answer 1

MARRIED PEOPLE STILL HAVE EYES THAT'S WHY!

Answer 2

Marriage doesn't stop attraction.  You may now kiss the bride, not now your eyes fall out! LOL

Answer 3

Well just because you CHOSE to marry someone for the rest of your life doesn't mean your natural instinct and the whole reason you got married in the first place just GOES away. That's just like sayin why guys/girls check out the opposite s*x even though they're with someone, yes you love that one person and you chose ONLY THEM...but you still have eyes..you still look, and what mentally stimulates your brain and causes ATTRACTION will STILL do the same function whilst you were single.  I dont' get where people think that just goes away.

You can CONTROL yourself and not chase after what comes natural....but you will always have that attraction...it is inevitable....it doesn't mean everyone just wants to cheat, it just means you're still HUMAN and you still will retain those instincts.  All about self-control and not putting yourself in compromising situations to avoid indulging your urges.

Answer 4

it's human nature really, you can't help but be attracted to good looking people, but just because you find someone attractive it doesn't mean you will cheat, or love your spouse any less.

Answer 5

Because being married is different than being dead.

Answer 6

Because they don't stop being human after they say I do.

It's not as if once you become married, you loose your drive to hunt.  In fact it may get heighten, if things are not going well at home.

Answer 7

Because someone you would have found attractive when you were single is still attractive to you when you are married. It is just a matter of love, faith, and the commitment that you share with your spouse that changes the way you view the attraction. Sometimes the attraction is there because you know that you are married and that nothing could ever happen anyway. I love my wife dearly and would never stray, or even wish that I could. I have been married 9 great years but that doesn't mean that all of a sudden Angelina Jolie, Eva Longoria, and Beyonce are hideous to look at... Married people are not blind, just spoken for.

Answer 8

it's human nature to be attracted to someone. Don't feel bad. As long it's fantasy then it's ok. You should really talk to your husband of all the things you feel. My wife and I tell each other everything. She even had the same exact feeling your feeling. We talk things out to why she feels this way and it was because of me lacking of giving her much needed love and attention. I do admit we all need this. And that's why we should never stop doing this. Seriously talk to your husband and the rewards are great. The s*x and love making sessions are unbelievable. Good luck