Why do people have a thing for always calling others ugly?

Question

im ugly not beautiful not pretty and not lovely. I dont have a boyfriend....i dont have nobody....Their (some guys and some gals) always calling me ugly and they got other people calling me ugly too and they laugh at me all the time. Now it gets me sad a lot. Now that I don't have that many friends even a boyfriend. I'm a really good person but why bad things happen to good people? Should i beleive what they said?

Answer 1

they just want to make fun of how other people looks like

Answer 2

u knw y people do that.....so that they can hide their own insecurities...well huny it does not matter... all that matters how u r ....from the inside....n ur family nad friends knw that dont they....sure they doo....n i am sure one day a boy will knw that too n luv u fr just who u r ...don worry abt them....just sick people!

Answer 3

f**k them!!!

they're just sayin it bc it makes them feel better about themselves.

they're taking the easy way out, stead of trying to improve themselves, they put eachothers down so they can feel all high and mighty and don't have to face the mirror themselves! ha! loosers!

Answer 4

people have no lives thats why.

Answer 5

First things first, you can't expect for people to gain respect for you if you don't respect yourself! If you're telling yourself (plus YahooAnswer), that you're a really ugly person....then you can't expect us to say you're any prettier than you really are. And yeah, bad things happen to good people sometimes....that's life. You can try to change your energy for something more positive as a start. Andddd, another thing....being ugly and not having a boyfriend does not have a MAJOR relation to eachother. I know plenty of ugly people with ugly boyfriends. Sometimes it's just by choice as wheather to be in a relationship or not.

Soooo, as for short, STOP BEING ALL NEGATIVE!

It makes people very unattractive...physically and mentally.

Answer 6

No!! Don't believe what others say about you. Believe in yourself if you have a good personality, good heart and you are a good person that's what really counts. People who put you down and say that you're ugly are only doing so just to make themselves feel better.

Did you ever hear the story about the ugly duckling? The same thing happened in the story where he was teased and no one liked him because everyone thought he was ugly, but when he grew up that ugly duckling turned into a beautiful swan.

Honey, don't worry about what others say about you because someday someone will actually see you for who you really are a beautiful woman with great qualities and a beautiful heart!! Trust me with those qualities and confidence/believing in yourself you someone is going to truly love you for who you are.

I truly hope this helps!!

PS....BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!

Answer 7

Nope. People who call you ugly are just doing that to make themselves feel better. It makes them feel pretty when they say that to others. Losers!

Besides, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What's pretty for one might not be for another.

Don't stress and don't believe what they say. There's something beautiful about everybody :)  

Answer 8

Ok here's what I have to say..

1. I never had a bf either,that doesnt mean im 'ugly'. I dont know bout you but it's not my fault that I dont wanna just say yes to any guy that ask me out, to me this is not the kinda thing I'd play around with. And I'm no s**t.

2. There's NO such thing as ugly. There's a thing called 'pathetic'. They're pathetic enough to say all the c**p about other people to make them feel good about themselves, and if you decided to take in those c**p they're giving you then you're even more pathetic than them.

There you know it yourself that you're a good person. Why bother listening to shallow people with no life? Seriously don't waste your time, focus on other stuff. If you're saying you dont have a friend,you need someone to talk to you can contact me anytime you want.

And oily skin -> proactive

messy hair -> straighten/bio ion or curl it

horrible eyebrow -> shape it

seriously these things are easy! When you're done with all that you'll be beautiful inside out, but those people? they'll still be those retarded - driven - by - cheap - ads - idiot - followers - of - dumba$$es - like - paris - hilton - morons, because those things are harder to be changed.

Have confidence and stand up for yourself!!

Answer 9

if someone calls u ugly, they are wrong. they are just seeing the outside, which makes them ugly (where it counts, on the inside). they are probably just making themselves feel better, even if it means putting someone down. don't listen to them, u  know u are beuatiful where it counts. don't worry about what you look like on the inside, focus on the things u kno r important. things like school, your inner beauty, and your family.

good luck. god and your famiy loves you, and that is what counts.

Answer 10

People insult each other to make themselves feel better about themselves. They're insecure about their appearence so they make fun of yours.

Don't let them get to you, everyone's beautiful in their own way.

You seem like a lovely person :] So don't let them get you down, you never know, them might just be jelous :)

Good luck :]

Answer 11

I bet you are a cutie and the other girls are monsters

remember - if a girl wears make up she has something to hide on her face - like she could have spots ECT

if you don't ware make-up you are happy about how you look

I don't have a boyfriend, never had one, cos I don't need one

the lasses who call you ugly only do it, to make them look good

see.

hold you head up high :)

Answer 12

this is a girl on her bf's:

Tbh as people say they could be jelous of you ! and people can be nasty and say things to impress there friends! if these people are really geting you down maybe you need to tel somebody!!

i was bullied & told my mum , eventually i moved skwl and now i couldn't be happier!

the people who bullied me were insecure about themselvs!

As they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder so don't you worry there wil be aboyfriend out there for you! maybe start talking to more people and then you may be suprised on how many people aren't like the bullies!

hope everyfin works owt 4 u !

Answer 13

Insecurity.

Answer 14

No don't /

they're probably just trying to hurt your feelings because they're b*****s

& have nothing better to do.

You shouldn't believe what they said because they said it, believe what you want to believe. Don't think you're ugly though, that just gets you down. I had the same problem with people calling me that in the 6th grade...it wasn't fun. I always used to get made fun of. By boys too, but you know what? I got over it & that's what you need to do. Just forget about it. Tell yourself I'm a good person don't listen to these f**s ;] & if people keep making fun of you & you can't take it talk to someone or see a psychologist.

Answer 15

I know exactly how you feel. People call you names because your not like them. Because you don't fit in with their crowd or their group of friends. Because your not another version of Barbie. You shouldn't believe what they say or feel insecure. Everyone is beautiful and unique for who they are. Not everybody has to look like Barbie. Could you imagine if everyone was the same? If we all looked the same? We would all have no individual character about us and we wouldn't have an independant look. But when they see that it has gotten to you they are pleased and they keep coming back for more and keep on picking on you because it makes them feel better about themselves. It makes them feel strong and powerful and dominant. They are only afraid of whats different. Be proud of who you are. If you want to enhance yourself then get your eyebrows fixed [i did] and take control of your hair, style it and do it how you like it [ i did], get facial washes etc for your oily skin [ i did but i have dry skin]. Ignore them. What good are they picking on other people that arent like them? How original though. They couldn't come up with something better than ugly? Or than to just laugh at you. Even if you were like them they would find something to pick on about you. They will pick one tiny flaw and make a HUGE deal out of it. But what good are they? No one is perfect. Im sure they have many flaws. What good are they? Picking on other people. That is pothetic, low, immature, stupid, mean etc. What makes them better than you? Its whats on the inside that counts. Are they good people? Obviously not if they are picking on you for being different.

I hope this helps... =)

Answer 16

I don't understand that either. Every one of us is beautiful in our own way.

Answer 17

NO!

YOU ARE NOT UGLY

there is no-one in the world who is ugly

i dont have a boyfriend

the people who call you ugly have no self confidience

when they call you ugly

either just ignore them

or find some killer comeback line

i cant think of one at the moment

but search on the internet for them!!

YOU ARE NOT UGLY

THEY ARE INSECURE B****

WHO WHERE WAAAY TO MUCH MAKEUP

AND SPEND ALL THEIR TIME IN FRONT OF THE MIRROR!

no your not ugly

i have oily skin, pimples, curly hair, freckles

and people dont think im ugly

because i surround myself with happy, supportive friends

YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!!

AHHHHH

NOT UGLY!!!!

Answer 18

well most people spend so much time trying to make themselves beautiful/handsome that when someone calls you ugly it is pretty much like telling you you wasted your time. but dont worry bout it who cares about them, they will get old and ugly just like the rest of the world.

Answer 19

People call other people ugly to feel better about themselves.

Answer 20

Poeople can be very cruel.  What one considers beauty another may not.  I truly look at the beauty of the soul.  Someone society considers quite beautiful could also be the ugliest person ever met.  My mother used to  say "pretty is as pretty does".  She was very right about that.

Don't worry about a boyfriend, as time goes by some lucky guy will see you for the wondreful person you are.  Not to mention you can get a man quicker than you get a sandwich.

Answer 21

No :]

never beleive what they tell you because you are problly beautiful and they are just jealous...they sound like real a**holes!

you need to find friends who appriciate you ....those friends that you have right now sound like they dont care for you or your feelings...

Answer 22

No Your  Not Ugly AT ALL  You jut mstrobably have a couple of imperfections dont cream your face just spash it wit cold water and pat your face with a towl wash your hair every week and brush it and greas it nicely and wax/pluck your eyebrow every one is beautiful they most pprobbably call you ugly cuz they knoww your gorgeous and dont want you to realise it cuz there plastered in make up. Keep your chin up like your nose is bleeding!! = ] Dont worry babessz XX