Why do people have such a problem with Geminis ?

Question

seriously WTH! can some (unbiased) person give me a reason for this!? Please?

Answer 1

Honey...You should see the problems that every single person has with Leos and then ask...

I will just tell you from my point of view.

I don't like talking bad about people,I don't like generalizing,but most Geminis that I've known were just..big talkers?

Let me explain.

If you tell them a secret,or something personal that you don't want the whole world to know about,they're the wrong person to talk to.

The whole world knows the next day and then they can act as though nothing happened or if they had absolutely no connection.

NOT ALL Geminis are like this,but that's about it..

I'm sorry if you didn't like the answer,I didn't mean to hurt.

Answer 2

i think theyre misunderstood :[

every gemini i knew was always smiling & tryin 2 make ppl smile w/ them! :] they want every 1 to be happy i can tell!! they r very intelligent & fun 2 be with! i kno sometimes they switch moods but who cares? its not their fault theyre born on the sign of the TWINS. & i kno sometimes they get a little 2 confident but other times they can be the most humble person on earth! i think theyre super friendly :] my gemini friends have a lot of friends & can make them easily

Answer 3

I only know one gemini girl and she is weird but ok (I dont know her very well). I know a few gemini men and they can be very weird people and hard to understand. the love of my life and only men I love and will ever love is a gemini. im a virgo and we broke up three times for stupid reasons but we tend to get back together because we cant live without each other. we argue and fight about controversial stuff and even stupid little things, but thats just the way we are. virgos are picky, boring and serious people while gemini are fun, loud, and funny people who like jokes and pranks, so they dont take life too seriously or they will get depressed at some point. people just dont understand geminis because there way of thinking and creativity is a very difficult level to understand and hard to interpret. what ive learned from my bf is that geminis in the inside are very emotional romantic and hurt easily if if any offense its committed against them and they are not easy people to handle after hurting them. there outside (assumed by others, but not true at all) its heartless and cold people who lie and cheat their boots off with different personalities and kind of loco people. I thought the same thing about gemini men at first, until I met my bf and he is a box of surprises. he says I can be boring sometimes as virgo normally are, but that there is something about me that drives him crazy and he never gets bored ( I bet its bedtime),lol.

People just think that geminis are way to hyper, flirty and extremely talkative, some people dont like those traits in a gemini and some do.

I like them depending in the place and moment, sometimes I need geminis fun to keep up my youth, but sometimes I dont even feel like been next to one, but I have no problems with gemini even thought I do get dizzy but never tired of them.

Answer 4

I don't really see where 'people' have 'such a problem' with Geminis. But if that's your perception of things, I'm sure you have a reason for it.

I've done nothing up to date but saying nice things about Gemini. I've known a good number of them, three of them I deeply loved, one of them is the person who literally purposely tried to ruin my life. Yet when I talk about Gemini, I always talk about the three guys I loved. I always see them when I think of Gemini.

Most of them are clearly people with a public and a private face, which can be frustrating for some signs. The not-so-nice Gemini I knew was an exception in many ways, but not in that way. Around people she would act charming and admirable... in private she was a bitter, paranoid person with a taste for revenge. But that doesn't define Gemini for me, nor does it imply that all Gemini have a pretty and an ugly face.

The other Gemini I knew all had two pretty faces. The one in public very charming, very confident, very giving - the one in private often insecure, sometimes depressed... but that's not less beautiful to me. In fact it's what I loved about them. The fact that you can have fun with them and admire them... and at the same time they are vulnerable. I always thought Geminis fascinating and intriguing and beautiful. You want a partner who is sensitive, but also someone who can have fun. That's how I see Gemini. One of the guys even lied to people to please them... which I saw as a Gemini trait... but I didn't even see it as ugly... because I saw it for what it was. Insecurity. Don't have a problem with insecurity. He could handle it differently, but he didn't at the time. He does now.

I've never seen great numbers of people bluntly bashing Geminis. I could ask the same question as you - why do people always have to go on about Taurus being stubborn? We're more than that. But maybe we're stubborn, too. Who cares. Just be the best person you can be.

Answer 5

Gemini's are generally "A" Holes. some are unmotivated scatter brains. Very commonly moody and will flip the script on you at a moments notice.  Gemini's are the type of people who want to be the center of attention but don't necessarily know how to go about getting it with out looking like a jerk.

So for some of those reasons people generally dont have long lasting realationships with Gemini as friends OR as lovers.

Answer 6

Well, you said "unbiased" info, but even tho I'm a Twin, I'll detach myself as much as possible based on what I've read, and not necessarily what I've experienced...

Well, Geminis can be nosy and garrolous, which is sure to try someone's nerves. They can also say harmful things without much consideration for the other person's feelings, but this is not necessarily their fault. Because Gemini is an air sign, their energies are mostly focused mentally, not emotionally, like, say water signs.

Because of this, Gemini also has a hard time expressing their feelings, which often leads to them being misunderstood. Gemini feels threatened and overwhelmed when faced with challenging emotions, especially their own, which can cause confusion and frustration.

"The Gemini personality can appear mysterious or detached to others and therefore they are often misunderstood and unappreciated for the talents they offer to the world at large. "

Answer 7

Also known as the Peter Pan of Astrology and very often misunderstood, Gemini's are fun loving, caring, a breath of fresh air.  They are always curious and very intelligent.  They are also very mischievous, have a free hand in spending because they're always looking to have a good time!  NOT always wanting to be the center of attention at all (that would be a LEO).  That's why Gemini's need a someone with a sign that is firm, with more control to put Gemini's in place, let's say a boring Capricorn, which Gemini complements Capricorn to get them out of their cautious selves every now and again. Yeah something like that....but also depends on all the other signs that we're made of....it's like we're a formula....

Answer 8

I agree with Emmie

I'm usually the one that's answering the questions who ends up defending them.

To me, they don't seem like 2-faced, lying back-stabbers. They seem like smart, funny individuals who know how to have a good time. Is that really such a crime? I mean, come on. Most people look at all the bad qualities of this sign. They don't look at the positive ones! They're great communicators, and not to mention hilarious! Pretty popular as well, most people are envious of them

Answer 9

Those who have a problem with gemini's or any one for a matter would be because they appear or can not untangle what find confusing in behaviour or approach to them. In other words it would result to being examined by others in a negative light and lead to being misunderstood.

I have realised in order for one to examine another, especially a gemini they should be fairly open minded, fair and not judgmental.

My bond with gemini's have resulted in being successful and being of  a firm bond due to the fact that i am an individual who does not look at the surface of a situation and one actions, but instead look deeper at the causes and affects. Also with my nature being understanding plus having the willing approach to allow one to express and clarify what causes them to be that way. In most cases i often find that those who are under the sun sign gemini or have aspects of gemini in their natal chart, often have no problem opening up to me, find warmth and are comfortable being themselves in front of me.

Why? As i do not digg at what could appear as negative aspects to me from what they give out, which i too have my negative aspects and everyone as a whole.

Also since gemini's love to learn the new and like for one to express in exchange of ideas. In this case of something i may not agree on, i place my point of view whereas they are open to weigh the pro's and con's (which within their mind the dualism of their twins are commonly known to debate and weigh up both sides/angles to an issue), resulting in them being rather understanding and seeing on a wider scale impacts.

As a whole if people can respect, appreciate ones differences whether the person is the complete opposite, in most cases you will help someone become that better person and be rewarded with the respect they will see and have for you. Especially loyalty, and Gemini's if they have trust and the person has earned their respect. They are very trustworthy and loyal people.