Why do people instinctively try and bond together with others, as opposed to simply letting others bond?

Question

with them, without forcing themselves on people?

Answer 1

I think its just natural for some people to want to socialize more than others do. It also depends on how assertive and out going a person is as opposed to shy. Some people wait until others make the first move, whereas other people do tend to make the effort first because it is "their" way...