Why do people like to see you not get what you want?

Question

I've been so nice to everyone in my new town. I don't bother anyone and I try to volunteer to help with the youth at my church. I expressed interest in a local women's group to a church member via email but she never responded. I thought that was rude and I feel a little embarrassed. I have a lot of potential and wonderful qualities and talents, why would someone act this way? She had to speak to someone to get in, what's the big deal?

Answer 1

Maybe it was an honest mistake and she didn't see your e-mail? She might just be a bitter lady though who is jealous of you.