Why do people make g*y relationships seem unreal?

Question

Why do people make g*y relationships seem unreal?

Uh I always hear people (even some bisexuals) talk about how unreal it is for two guys to be in a romantic relationship. It's looked at as something that's not classified as a relationship. For example if a bisexual guy cheat on his boyfriend with a girl, people in general wouldn't think anything bad about it, because hes supposed to be sexually and romantically attracted with a female anyway. It gets on my nerves cuz there's alot of thug....masculine bisexual guys that think/say that same mess as heterosexual people ugh. Oh and I'm bisexual myself but not like "some" other bisexual guys that's all about the females and only freaks guys on the side, or freak their other bi male friends.

Shoots one bisexual guy told me that "he wouldn't date another guy (that's just too g*y) but would just want to have s*x with one" and said to me "u wanna s*x buddies" uh h**l 2 da naw and I wanted to slap the h**l out of him...uh I just don't get it...alot of people say that I'm being childish and stuff....but personally I just have a problem with a lot of other bi males and some striahgt guys because they see two guys being in a romantic relationship as too g*y and unreal!

Answer 1

yea ive heard people say that before. basically they try to say that g**s are only into each other for the s*x and that a relationship between same gendered people iznt possible and will always end in ruin (funny cuz da divorce rate for straights iz skyrocketing). i think, because homosexuality  is something different from what theyre used, they cannot understand the attraction toward someone of the same s*x, and they are ignorant about the subject, they fear g**s and the g*y lifestyle. so then they feel there must be something wrong with it

Answer 2

seems like u live in a community where there is alot of machismo. i hate those "macho" guys and say all that but go on the DL. they're just hypocrites.

Answer 3

why? my friend and his bf are really loving towards each other. i dont see were ur geting this from

Answer 4

don't worry about other people think. i think most g*y men have problems coming to terms with the fact that they like men. they tend to put g*y men down as a way to make themselves feel better. i guess in their minds it's easier to be bi than g*y.