Why do people never know what they've got till its gone...?

Question

But didn't bleeding appreciate it when they had it!!! lol

Answer 1

There are two reasons.  One is that over time we tend to take the people we love for granted because we tend to fall into a routine in our lives with them.  The second is that it is very hard to step back from a relationship and see it clearly when your in the middle of it.  Often it is only when we are forced to step back and look at it that we clearly see what we had and all the mistakes we made.

Answer 2

Most of us are not smart enough. We are selfish people and usually think the grass is greener on the other side.

Answer 3

what do you mean?

Answer 4

What?

Answer 5

because when they had it they probably didnt think they'd loose it.

and after its gone they start thinkin about it more than when they had it, and then most likely start missing it.

Answer 6

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Things look rosier in the past, you tend to remeber the good about someone more than the bad most of the time. It's why exes get back together. They miss each other, so it's quick fix in the short term. But after a while the old problems resurface.

Answer 7

well you are right ' but look at it another way ' his loss .

Answer 8

Human nature is to want what we can't have and some don't learn until they lose it. Sucks doesn't it. I've been there too.

Answer 9

Not all people do.  Some people appreciate exactly what they have.  You see those people sometimes at function halls having their 50th year anniversaries and such.  

Answer 10

For some reason people think the grass is greener on the other side.  Maybe their friends told them something.  It happens to all of us, on both ends.  Sometimes we loose something that we didn't mind loosing at the time, but looking back you regret that choice.  Other time you loose something, and it turns out to be a good thing to loose.

Answer 11

cuz some time people take things for granted and think that there or that thing will be there for ever but along down the road they relize that there not always ganna be there cuz of them treating them a sirten way or they miss treat it or don't be responsible.