Why do people not feel guilty when they cheat?

Question

Why do people not feel guilty when they cheat?

Answer 1

one word...........HEARTLESS

Answer 2

Because it has nothing to do with your spouse.  It is all about you and the person that you met that filled a void that your spouse did not.

Why should a human being feel guilty because they love another human being?  

Believe me, every single person on the planet would cheat if the right person walked in the door.  You that don't cheat, because you have not met that special someone.  Believe me I said no to tons of men and never thought twice about it.  

Maybe my a$$ of a husband shouldn't have asked for a divorce and wanted to run off with that s***k at the hospital.

Answer 3

Because their selfish darling.  

Answer 4

yep i agree they are selfish, and they feel like they are getting out of a relationship they were so obviously unhappy with

Answer 5

Because they only care about their own happiness, they don't care that they hurt others.

Answer 6

Sociopaths have no remorse with Anti-Social behaviors. Unfortunately when the ladies today meet a Man and fall in love they fail to see any illness present, but it comes out later in the marriage.  It's a major concern because it's hidden from her, but is revealed through the affairs partaken from the male.

In most cases depression and Bi-Polar exhists in some that have a direct connection that leads up to disagreements with the spouse and finally another female that is yearning to be loved falls for the married Man and the affair begins.

It may end and he may quit or he may come across a female that is very desirable and she likes him favorably and that will cause more major problems as he drifts further and further from the clutches of his wife.

Even if she finds out he may show no bitter reaction or he may pass it off as nothing and use vain excuses from his current marriage to appeal after for reasoning such a foolish move as to love on another woman.

When the wife can see that her husband was not affected much from her argument she realizes that there is another problem that exhists.

Some wives will not tolerate such action from the husband and divorce him because he shows no remorse making her feel like trash and unworthy to be his wife.

This problem will not ever cease and more and more wives become the victims in this cruel and unusual motion by the husband to lay down with another woman other than his wife.

The solution is not that easy. Once a husband has tasted another woman while being married it sticks to him like glue mentally..he is towered by the event and frolics afterwards.

The best way to tackle a husband that has affairs is to let his drive wither out. It's like a Tornado that dies, a hurricane that hits land and a storm that stops raining.

It could take months to years before he actually faces his own demons and in the meantime his wife suffers every day to the thought of when it will happen again.

Answer 7

Seems to me that would be unusual.  I would think most people would feel guilty but this feeling may diminish the more times someone cheats.  

Answer 8

I think people cheat becuse they get bored of the same person and they dont really feel guilty if  they dont care

Answer 9

I think they convince themselves that they have reason to cheat. If they do that, they don't have to feel guilty.  

Answer 10

Some just cant help it. Its nature.

Answer 11

Sometimes when a person cheats they don't care about the person that they are married to. The marriage could be over and they just haven't got divorced.  

Answer 12

cuz its the thrill of doing something bad that keeps them going. its horrible i know. but some ppl prefer things that r off limits. i guess they just wanna prove a point. if they knew the point they were proving to me, they'd reconsider. then again, prolly they wont. they still got their thrill going.

they eventually find out tho, this thrill doesn't die slowly but ends harshly

Answer 13

i think the first time there is real guilt but the more it happen es the less it has an effect on you as they convince them selves that USMC and he will never find out and he probably wont as long as no one knows but you and the other person the more who know the higher the risk  

Answer 14

cause most of the times.. the crab deserved it.. lol  

Answer 15

they're so self-absorbed that they don't feel they've done anything wrong, they're really good at convincing themselves that THEY are the victim so they can justify any actions. Oh who knows. I'll never understand it.

Answer 16

Because they only care about themselves.

Answer 17

Because you have to have a heart to feel?