Why do people say it don't matter about a disabled child when its quit obvious it dose ?

Question

but if it didnot bother them why would they ask

Answer 1

well to me it doesnt matter...i would love my child no matter what!!! me and y hubby are going to have 3 blood children then later on in life adopt...we are really considering older children and children who are disabled because these are the children no one wants and we belive every child needs love and family!!!!!!

Answer 2

trying to lesson the parents pain. what good would it do to make the parents feel bad?

Answer 3

weither a child is disabled or not they should still be treated the same as any other child and loved like another no body is perfect

Answer 4

Well it matters in that the child will obviously have to be raised differently and the parents will probably be more stressed (more work than expected, social pressures, etc, etc), but other than that, it doesn't matter. The child is a human being who needs to be cared for a nurtured just like a child who doesn't not have a disability.

Answer 5

Do what?

Answer 6

I can honestly say that in my 33 years of life I've never heard anyone say "it don't matter about a disabled child", that is a sweeping generalisation which holds no truth in modern society.

Answer 7

Confused?  How does it matter?