Why do people say they want to hang out with me but then they don't?

Question

Im getting tired of people because they send me messages and say they want to hang out and then Im like ok great! when do you want to? and then they dont answer or go and do something else. Three people have done that to me in the past month and its making me sick.

Answer 1

psh it happens to everyone. my 'acquaintances' sometimes do that, but i dont really care.

cuz it all comes down to: do you reaaaally wanna hang out w/ some1 who disses you easily like that?

Answer 2

This sucks, it happens all through life, even when you are way older, like me.  It has to do something with them and not you.  I guess they don't understand peoples feelings.  Try not to let it bother you and keep on trying to find that great friend that has the same morals as you and would not do that.  I am sorry that happened to you.

Answer 3

They are showing that they are wanting to include you, but there might be other people that have a higher priority in their lives. Next time just tell them that if they want to hang out than come to your house right then and see what they say!

Answer 4

sadly people say things like that because it flows with the conversation and I'm sure it's not they are intentionally trying to ditch you it's just a good idea at the time.  Maybe you could try and make plans at that moment and not leave it up in the air or you could try and get in on plans with her/him and their other friends.  Just don't make a huge deal about it because then you will seem like a nuisance.