Why do people think i was to young to get married and have a baby?

Question

you people dont know me so u cant say that im not a good mother and that my marriage isnt going to last.

Answer 1

Because a mature, responsible mother and wife is too busy with the everyday responsibilities that are required for the job.  They are not busy trying to defend themselves.  

To make a real effort of making a success of your situation, then stop worrying about what others are saying and get on with the business of making your household a nurturing environment for your new little person.  

Answer 2

I'm not trying to be disrespectful or anything , BUT why ask the question  saying " Why people think that you were to young to get married, have a baby, tell us your age and the age of you family...and say that we don't know you. "

When you come to yahoo answers people might tell youthings on their own personal experince, and give thoughts, suggestions....

In then end you are going to do what you want to do. So don't get mad if people tell you their thoughts, ideas and opinions. Or if you are going to be upset about it then don't ask. Good Luck

Answer 3

cause most people your age arent thinking straight yet but if you are lucky you and your family .  it is too rare to find a responsible mature 15 year old .

Answer 4

WHY?  

If you don't understand that you are way too young to get married and have a child, then that's a perfect example of why you're too young!  You are very immature and unintelligent if you don't understand that!

You are not even a woman and he's definitely far from a man.  You're just teenagers and you're trying to be adults.   The children always suffer, because you are too young and you are not staying married until death do you part.  You haven't even grown yet and alot in both your personalities are still going to change.  That's when you'll get to know each other and that's when you'll kick yourself in the a s s for making this decision.

Answer 5

I didn't say you weren't a good mother. It's just unusual. I Hope that you ARE who you say you are and as good as you say you are. But statistically, you don't see too many good ones out there. Statistically they don't stay together long. I hope you husband is one of the more mature 19year old's and I hope you have grown up really quick.

if this is is the case you have a good chance.

Answer 6

Cause 15 IS to young to be married and have a baby.

Answer 7

Many people will not understand how you could legally marry at 14? 15? The fact that you have a child will make it seem as if it were a "shotgun" marriage. In many places your husband would have been tried for rape since you would have been regarded as a minor.

You have the cards stacked against you statistically, which means that marriages of people your age do not last. The main reason is that neither you nor your husband has seen anything of the world nor had many of the great

experiences of the later teen years.

  In many ways you are still a child. I feel sad that you have been landed in this situation. However, that is the down side of the situation. The other side is that you seem a tough character and that you seem determined to do all the right things.

What has happened is now water under the bridge. You have to make the most of what you have got and, by the sound of you, I think that you will make it.

  What part of the States do you come from?

Answer 8

No one knows your relationship but you...we all give opinions based on our life experiences and facts. Not all young marriages are doomed for failure, but it is a very high rate that do.

Most marriages fail because of money problems.

If you are mature enough to handle marriage and your daughter so young then congratulations.  

Answer 9

Because you both are so young yourselves - neither of you have exp life as adults. When you become older either of you or both of you may start to wonder what you missed out on.  I had a son 12 days before my 18th birthday - and as my friends went off to college and went out to the bars and such - i did wonder what i missed.  Now its a little funny cuz they have small children and mine are 14 and 16.  So we really dont have alot to talk about and lost touch.  

Answer 10

You are 15 years old.  There is much of your life that you are going to miss out on.  College for one thing, how about high school?  Life is tough enough without adding to the stress.  You are still a child in some ways even though you are capable of giving birth.  No one can say you aren't a good mother or that you aren't in love. I believe you can be.  You are going to miss out on a lot that most of your friends will experience and you won't be able to relate to people your own age.

I was 19 and single when I had my first child and it was very difficult, not so much because I was single but because I really wasn't ready for it.  The older I got the more I realized what people meant when they said that to me.  Not much to do about it now, what is done is done.  You have a beautiful daughter, a husband who I hope helps you and loves you as much as you love him and I wish the best for you and your new family.

Answer 11

congrats to you both x x x

go with your heart mrs!

Answer 12

Come back and answer your own question when you are 35!!!!

Seriously, do you think anyone is going to give you positive answers to this???  You have NO IDEA how much the two of you will change between now and 25.  Just remember this in 10 years and see.

The reason why people think you are too young, is because you are TOO young to get married and have a baby...that's why its illegal and you must have parental permission.

You cannot vote, drive, or do any other PRIVILEDGES at 15 and it is because you are too immature to make a rash decision.  And the fact that you got knocked up and married proves that theory!!!