Why do people want to or become bi sexual?

Question

Why do people want to or become bi sexual?

Answer 1

The want issue is still something that is pretty debated amongst people interested in understanding sexuality. If people do choose what their sexuality is, its probably somewhat unlikely that many people are choosing a lifestyle that is different than the incredible persuasive norm, heterosexuality. At least in the united states, we are still only beginning to accept notions that sexuality might not be coded simply as heterosexual, and we still arent emerging very far from it. This certainly isnt the case everywhere, as different cultures throughout history have treated sexuality differently.

If people are becoming something as you suggest, then its one of two things, though perhaps not mutually exclusive. There may be a biological element, but if there is, it still stands to be determined what this means. In a very political issue, both sides often are anxious to put too much emphasis on biological explanations - because they can so easily be twisted to political ends. At the moment, we just dont seem to know enough, though we do know many other things about sexuality physiologically, to determine how much biological factors influence or cause sexuality in any direction.

if people are becoming sexual beings in any direction though, it quite probably has something to do with their own realizations within cultural understandings. Most people at some period in their life, are not sexual creatures at all, in fact all of us probably are. At some point we begin to learn what it means to be a sexual being, in whatever form that takes. If someone is making any particular choice - but perhaps even more so when making a choice outside of what is generally supposed by society, it is likely the result of a long series of realizations about the self and the sexuality that comes with it.

Its seems quite complicated all in all.

Answer 2

people dont want to become bi-sexual its just a natural occurance. people that are bi-sexual are genuinely attracted to both sexes. its like you dont choose to become a heterosexual you either are or not. i do not choose to be attracted to the opposite s*x i just am and always have. its all up to the individual, like some people would like peanut butter and others may not. individual preferences.

Answer 3

coz there emo or want attention

Answer 4

When Bisexuality is chosen, people want the best of both worlds. They want the fruits of hetero and homo sexual life. Simply put, they like the affections, feelings, and sexual relations of both.

I am not saying that Bisexuality is always a choice, sometimes there are more things going on than we can readily know. Sometimes it is Biological, sometimes it is emotional, sometimes it can even be a chemical imbalance.

The ones who choose, want the best of all worlds, plan to enjoy them, and frequently do so.

Answer 5

Speaking as a bisexual, I didn't want to become one. It just happened. Its a matter of attraction. Just like you're attracted to girls or guys. You don't choose to have feelings for someone. You 'feel' it. You can't help it.

Answer 6

Well, earlier in life, I was very insecure about my sexuality. I like girls, but I like guys way more and on a more emotional level. I don't think I became bisexual, my brother knew years ago that I wasn't straight before even I knew.