Why do people yell at there parents when there mad

Question

i grew knowing that if i talked back to my mom i would get smacked but that dont mean i dont say it in my head or anything. so if you have an answer 4 me then write ty ty ty

Answer 1

I really try not to yell at my parents but sometimes I just go off on them and I shouldn't.

Most of the time when I do it is because they yelled at me for know reason...but its not good!!

:)

Answer 2

i try my best not to go mad at my mom because i no ill be in for it by my dad  

Answer 3

When people are in a foreign country and can't make themselves understood, they talk more loudly.  I think yelling is a way people try to get other people to understand.

Answer 4

idk, it never works.  sometimes, u may be annoyed and think that if u yell back, it will get u somewhere, but u really never do.  it's better to talk about it, cause that actually gets u somewhere.  

Answer 5

I think some people yell because they want the parent to listen and many parents refuse to listen to their children. It is sad when no one listens.

Answer 6

Its called " Control drama" This behaviour is not confined to children. Any person who seeks to control a situation will usually shout, in other cases it maybe a threat of violence or intimidation. Other dramas are smashing a cup throwing a plate a chair, punching a wall etc etc. Generally, this kind of  behaviour takes away the control from the recipient and hands it to the person committing the act. A good way to re-take control of such a situation is to recognise what is happening, and then " expose" the behaviour, for example, "Why are you shouting at me ? You will not get your own way by carrying on like that " Sounds simple ? Try saying it to a 25 year old !      

Answer 7

When I'm angry with my father, it's because he's provoked the situation.  I just wish he would learn what effect his behaviour has on people.

Answer 8

I don't bother arguing with my parents. There's no use, because they will always think they're right. But those are just my parents.

Answer 9

Im am with you if i argue back with my parents my mum will smak me and my dad will tell me off in a serious mode.

I think because usually parents love us kids too much too hurt us.

Answer 10

it hurts when i do but my mum and i argue all the time, its due to our family situation, but i hate it

Answer 11

ya but my mom dosent smack me. but there are parents with diffrent raising rules. like our family gets in trouble because we speak our mind. that gets us in trouble some times!