Why do so many women get mad when men stare at them?

Question

I get so annoyed when I see a woman asking on here "Why do men think they can look at our b***s?!"

When I dress like a **** it's because I WANT guys to look at me, and I don't mind when they do. But for some reason a lot of other women get mad when guys check them out even though they're wearing tissue paper for clothes. Why are they such hypocrites? I hate women, I really do.

Answer 1

They say they're annoyed only to make themselves appear like they're not out for attention. Deep down they are smiling. They argue that women should have the right to wear whatever they want without having men ogle them and they may be right, but they know that if they have their *** hanging out, people are going to look. I give them props for having the confidence to show off their bodies but if you dress like a s**t, expect to be treated like one.  

Answer 2

Well you are a woman, too, don't forget. Maybe if women dress in a promiscuous way, then you are right.. men will stare but what about a woman who happens to be well endowed and dresses absolutely normal and does not show off her cleavage. In that case I would consider it rude if a guy talks to her b*****s instead of recognising and accepting her as a human being first and foremost.. When I meet a guy and even if he was my type I would not check out his private area first.. I would look at his face and his smile. It is polite to be a bit tactful and when one speaks to women, a guy should look her in the face and not at her b*****s.. some women can't help it if they got larger b*****s and they are not out for a cheap 'pick up'' they are just walking along and in that case it's inappropriate and rude to be stared at...one can glance but not stare. One doesn't stare at handicapped people just because they have a disability. One should look them in the face and not ignore them. They too are people and no need to avoid looking at them but not staring at them because they happen to be different. You should accept other people as they are.. then they will accept you for who you are. I accept your point of view but I also believe in live and let live and don't judge others.. xx

Answer 3

... I get irritated when men whistle at me and stare at me, usually because i'm not very interested in what a man in a car driving past me while i walk to the shops thinks of me.

Women aren't hypocrites, that is the worst generalisation. Women are conditioned by society to dress like that. Keeping up with whatever fashion dictates that women wear isn't an invitation for men to stare at them. The problem is that when men stare, we know what they're thinking and it's not a pleasant thought that some random guy is thinking about s*x with you. Personally, when i see men staring at my chest i feel self conscious and embarrassed.

Don't be so judgmental.

Answer 4

You may want men to look,  but yo don't want them to stare. A brief look is fine. But to stare is rude. And If you hate women it means you hate yourself.  

Answer 5

Its a well known fact that women dont have to dress like s***s for men to stare at their b***s... Duh. Men would try to stair at your b***s even if you were wearing ten layers of clothes. It wouldnt be so creepy if they just took a quick glance but it gets a little weird when they stare for an hour and dont care who knows theyre doing it.

Answer 6

lol.. those are the white girls complaing about that..  they are like really religious and Republican... lol

But thanks for bring up that true point.  : )  

Answer 7

right on the money, sis

Answer 8

Hear hear!  They spend thousands of dollars on boob jobs so they have perky double-D's, they wear low-cut dresses with cleavage down to their navels and sequined arrows pointing to their nipples, then when a man looks they call him a pervert.

Answer 9

When a man ogles me it makes me extremely uncomfortable. I dress modestly and always have, yet I still receive the same as any other woman. The cat calls, the whistling, men coming up and informing me of how "hot" I am. Or one of the myriad other terms of "flattery." I take all of that as an insult. I need a man who can challenge me and stimulate my mind. If a man thinks he can call me hot and be in the door with me he has another thing coming!

Answer 10

Women want to be able to wear what they like so they look good in themselves without men staring. While I can understand that, I feel they do need to realise that men do have certain biological urges (much like women do as well) and that they cannot help but look. I personally dont like women who wear nothing more than a handkerchief to cover up, I prefer the dressed look myself its much sexier.  

Answer 11

If a woman is going to wear clothes that are revealing then she just has to get used to the idea that people will notice.  Sure men stare.  What are we supposed to do?  Go blind or something?