I've been thinking of this lately, and will probalby blog about it, lol, but I wonder just what triggers the feelings of loss for some adoptees and not for others.
I don't think it's upbringing; I feel the loss, and I had a great upbringing. But what COULD it be? Any ideas? I wonder, if studies were done and we could figure out why some adoptees feel the loss of their first families, maybe that could be a key in fixing what is "broken" with adoption, so future adoptees won't have to feel it, or feel it so acutely.
I don't know; I'm just trying to better understand my fellow adoptees. Thanks everyone in advance.
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