Why do some black males, have higher expectation for black females?

Question

( i saw this on another person page, just wondering ur opinion)

i was watching "Black men revealed" a couple of nights ago. And the subject for interracial dating came up. one of the host stated that when he see a black man with a white women, he never looks at the woman and think 'd**n she fine',usually she all "busted up". But when he see a white man with a black female, she usually at lest (what he says) a"7. What they were trying to get across is that, black men have higher expectation for black females. The reason i think this is, is because some people think that anything mixed is s**y or pretty, in some cases this is true.i also think that some black men don't really care what the female looks like, when they are white, because they think no matter what, black mix with white would result in a "good hair", pretty skin baby. but If they have a child with a black female you have a less likely chance of having that same offspring. So i just want to get as much opinions as i can get on this subject, be honest please. I'm not saying all black man are like this and if you read this over you would see that i always write down"some black man or some people".

Answer 1

It may be true that some black males have higher expectations for black females.

However, it may also be true that some black females demand more than some black males are willing or able to provide.

Answer 2

The fact of the matter is, just because you see a black male with a white female does not mean that all he is targeting are white females.

Before that white girl entered the picture, maybe he did try to talk to a black girl and she turned him down. In the pool of women he pursued, maybe there was a certain percentage that were black but it fizzled.

And the one that worked out happened to be white. I've seen a lot of sistas dog out a brotha' and wouldn't give him the time of day. Then when they see him with a white girl, they get beside themselves.

But since you want honesty, I will tell you like this:

The reason why black women have a problem with a decent black guy dating a white girl is because deep down, black women feel like that man went to the next level and left them behind. In other words, black women feel like dating a white woman is considered a promotion. Notice they are not as harsh as if it were a Hispanic female or a Middle Eastern/Indian?

Because that's more of a lateral move in their mind. It's true.

As far as the hair observation. The reason why black women get pointed out for having better hair after they get their perm or relaxer put in is for 2 reasons:

1. Because it is better hair than what they had before. Black women do not like the hair they were born with so they put a bunch of chemicals in it to make it softer and such which the other ethnicities grow naturally.

2. Lets face it, anytime you get a hair cut or you change someting in your appearance, you want people to notice. So if it's your hair, they will naturally mention that you have nice hair. That's more of a female thing than a racial thing.