Why do some guys have to try harder and come on to women stronger than some most guys have to?

Question

It's a cold, hard fact that some guys just can't be their normal everyday selves in order to get women and they've lived enough to know this as a fact, these guys have to put on an act and hit on women stronger than most guys normally do...

For some guys, it's sad but true, why do you think this is?

Answer 1

I agreed with everything you said up until the very last part.

It's not only guys that can't be themselves, it's women as well. We'll ignore that for this answer, though. A lot of people have trouble recognizing their true selves. If a man (or woman) can't even recognize their true selves then they can not love themselves. Finally, if one can not recognize nor love themselves then how can they be expected to present an honest image to others? If they can not love their true selves, how can they be expected to love others?

Where I disagree with you is your suggestion that these people will die alone - unless they "talk dirty" and/or "get their groove on." First of all, dirty talk and getting your groove on are not indicitive of abnormality, Many "normal" people do these things everyday. Secondly, and this is key, these men act this way because they've received some sort of positive reinforcement that it works. Sadly (but truly) there are a GREAT many women who swoon for these type of men. They will not die alone but, instead, with someone as fake as them