Why do some guys play mind games??

Question

can someone please tell me why SOME guys play mind games with girls?? is it because they like the girl and they play these games to see if the girl likes them back??? or is it something else?? explain please...thanks

Answer 1

Please don't limit it to guys.  Girls play as many, if not more, mind games than guys do.  Both sexes have a way of acting to get what they want or need from each other.  It is just the way life works.

Answer 2

because women do the same and we like to confuse yall as much as yall confuse us

Answer 3

Uh, girls also play mind games.

Harleigh Kyson Jr.

Answer 4

like he said

Answer 5

Because there scared and there not quiet man yet they are still little boys

Answer 6

Define mind games, and give an example or two. It seems to be one of those phrases that women use with each other frequently, but women need to explain to men what they are referring to. I see online definitions that call mind games verbal efforts to confuse or intimidate. That is somewhat vague. If I know of a few examples, I may be able to answer. Do you mean, why do some guys lie? If so, the answer is, some guys are immoral and not worth your time. You would do well to learn to identify them sooner rather than later. Honesty may be the single most important attribute to look for in a man.

Answer 7

the whole male species are blessed with the characteristic of ignorance.

i really think that they dont know what they do when they do it.

Answer 8

Guys play mind games because they are just as nervous as girls are. Because they have  egos to protect, they will never admit that the are scared and/or that they play mind games. Truth be told girls play mind games too.

Answer 9

It's the same with girls. We are all players!!!

Answer 10

Ugh i have no idea. I need help too!! this one guy is confusing me so much, tooo much unpredictability isn't a good thing

Answer 11

Becuause we are all nasty, nasty people.

Answer 12

cuz they are horny :]

Answer 13

Thank you for saying, "some guys."

My brother for example, plays mind games with his girl friends to get to use them and then when he's done (he'll tell them what they want to hear) he'll suddenly concoct stories upon why they are at fault in a relationship. He will find everything that is actually nothing wrong with them to make them feel bad after he's sworn to devote himself to them.

It's his pathetic way of moving from the old girl to a new one.

Answer 14

I think they do it because its fun to play mind games on the girl that likes them. Idk why it just is. Its basically just flirting (but you already knew that didnt you)

Answer 15

its not just some it is most

lol

blessed be

Answer 16

IDK for sure....but as I get older I think they do it if they are not really sure how much they like someone, and are holding out, in case someone they like better shows up......Like they don't want to "toss" the OK girl because she's alright, and they need someone. But if the one they really wanted happens to show, or  there's the one who will just give it up because they like them so much(and they can just deny the whole thing for weeks until she just goes away)....but what it comes down to....is if he's really into you, and your really into him, you won't ask any questions....you'll know...

Answer 17

the girl first plays mind games with them so they give it back ask any man it all starts with a woman's insecurities

Answer 18

you guessed right!  congratulations!

Answer 19

to get what they want!

Answer 20

well if girls has mind of course every guys wants to show their capability of mind.so there is nothing if u don't have mind then who wants to play with you while he is already winner.and as far as guys like them or girls likes them back this is only just part of the game.so both can make reason of that kind of brain full person.OK

Answer 21

they don't you women just overthink things and make these little things into "mindgames" when really guys are trying to get in your pants.

Answer 22

Girls do the same but WAY worse. Welcome to life.