Why do some men divide women into "the good ones", and the bad ones - like produce at the grocery store?

Question

Two distinct groups of produce on the shelves. How to pick a juicy pomegranate, a ripe avocado, a sweet orange? Why isn't it enough to let women just be human, faults and all? But no! No wonder these guys are perpetually disappointed - they live in a fantasy world where women are fruit for sale.

Answer 1

Women and men both do it. There are a lot of PEOPLE who are shallow. Some women want a man with money some men want a ditsy blonde with DD's. Some PEOPLE are good ones and bad ones. Stop trying to pigeon-hole every guy because of YOUR negative experiances.

Answer 2

You are right, the human persona is a fascinating thing and all people have multifaceted personalites.  I think that society has created a wedg ena dsome people like the men you talk about see women as a different species. They don't see them the same way they would see another man.

Answer 3

we're only playing the same game you are. is called the "treat the other s*x like anything else but human, game,you women do it but can't get yourself to admit it.

you were talking about faults and all? you women like a guy but when you find fault in him you're not interested in him any more and you want to get rid of him,because according to you,you are waiting for "Mr Right" who will be rich, good looking and will agree to be your puppet.

P.S If I get reported of get thumbed down  or get nothing it's because i'm right.

Answer 4

Hey who cares is some guy calls me a mango; I'm still a human-being and I know it.  Besides; that's how we do it, so we, men and women, can divide the good from the bad; in that way we make sure to keep away from the bad seeds.

Answer 5

Yes.

Answer 6

That's just your perception, men are bad, women are better.

Even if there is truth in what you are saying, women will shop around for moneyed guys, for every "crime" men commit, you can find an opposite "crime" that women do.

What you are doing here is trying to reinforce your own negative stereotypes.

A raisin is a dry fruit isn't it?

Answer 7

So they can tell which one of the women end up being an annoying ****. You're one of the bad ones.

Answer 8

You are right !!

Women are Not ! Fruit !

They are more like used cars,  some are sporty ,some are practical ,door dings , high mileage, and some are just plain lemons !

Oh , d**n were back to fruit again ? maybe they are fruit ???

Answer 9

And women don't?

Also a rather ironic statement coming from someone with your name.

Answer 10

I might think that there are men who think women as fruit for sale, but I don't made my self available for them nor befriends with them. As for me I don't care  for men thinking that way.. I have a husband who made me feel im the most beautiful and desirable woman on earth. I have a father who beleive im his little angel turn into wonder woman..LOL, and a grandfather who adores me so much. (May his soul rest in peace)That all matters to me. I just don't care for the rest. *shrugs* to each his own.

Answer 11

ahem

Answer 12

Same reason we women do it to men.

Answer 13

OK so moral of the story dont judge a serial killer because he/she may be a good person in some ways. Do you even believe what your saying some people are just fucked in the head and yes that makes them into the bad ones, we have a prison system flooded with bad ones of both sexes.

Answer 14

Not all men do.

And some women do that too.

It's natural, people with self-steem search for what they consider best for themselves, sometimes that's too hard.

Sucks, but that's how it works :P.

Answer 15

Lol - you've hit the nail on the head.

It makes the world an easier place to deal with for such people. Grouping people together means you can treat that entire group the same way.