Why do some men’s purpose of life is woman?

Question

When asking questions like “what is happiness” or “what is love” the bad guys of this kind will usually answer “beers and girls” while this kind good guys will answer “my wife”. Still, it’s all women. Don’t this kind of guys have better thing to fight for in life?

Answer 1

Depends upon the company of people you are with...We form opinion sometimes based on the people surrounding us...It is like if you are at airport, it looks like everybody is going for a holiday..

Answer 2

It is because we as individuals and as society want to have the love and support and justice of the feminine mother-child relationship all our lives. The rise of mankind has been toward that femininity. Femininity is not at all what we transiently, subjectively assign it to be through "gender role" behaviors. When pressed to define femininity and masculinity, time and time again here, I see lists of HUMAN qualities. One cannot say that "nurturing" for example, is only a quality of women. Or, one cannot say that courage is only a quality of men. So, what do ALL humans identify and mean deep down by the notion of femininity?  What is it men want from women, other than just s*x?  Why do men and women form covenants of love?

The original ancient etiology of the phrase, "the fairer s*x" comes from the dichotomy of fair=just and foul=unjust. Men historically have viewed women as being the more "fair" s*x in that regard. That hails from the early human mother-child relationship in which we were helped to live by our mothers rather than preyed on. Early humans never again had it as good as when they were in their mothers' care, never as warm or able to sleep without worry or easily find food or shelter. Our entire rise as a species has been through our explorations of the world around us for better ways to live as comfortably and safely and "justly" as we did within our mother-child relationship, better ways such as clothes to stay as warm as we did when snuggled up close to our mothers, better ways to find and store food to stay as well-fed as we did with our mothers, better ways to protect ourselves from predators and each other as our mothers did for us, and better ways to live with compassion and mercy and peace in just societies.

We especially wanted better ways to live together in peace and compassion and mercy and justice as our mothers treated us without so much viciousness and predatorial threat and unfairness, so we've struggled to rise above vicious predatorial savagery through laws, notions of order and rules of "feminine" or maternal social behavior such as the Ten Commandments and the U.S. Constitution. The entire rise of mankind has been away from savagery and Master / Slave moralities into humanistic values of treating each other with respect and mercy. It is not at all about good=female and bad=male. It's about all of us rising as an animal species out of savagery into greater comfort, peace, safety and just / fair consciousness. In that, I must say men are most definitely becoming "feminized". And that is good.

Men have long expected their female mates to maintain for their men mini-maternal utopias of justice and safety and comfort and support in their marital relationships within the private kingdom of their homes. And with the rise of women, many men feel horribly shook up over the notion that those mini-utopias are being lost. GOOD!  It's time for men to want and work toward and fight for a more just, compassionate and merciful SOCIETY for all of us rather than just for themselves alone in their seperate peaces with a surrogate mommy.  That's what men and women want from each other, that "feminine" sanctuary or covenant of support, fairness, love and compassion.  We want to know we have someone always on our side in fairness and mutual support.

Answer 3

my purpose in life is to worship God and that's my only porpuse,infact that should be everyone's purpose because without him there is no you.

he's all I need to complete my life.

Answer 4

whats better than having somebody you can be 100% open with, love, and have s*x with?

Answer 5

No, there is no better thing for a man to fight for than a woman.  Despite what a certain number of them (especially here in GWS ) think; we simply LOOOOVVVE them sooo!  And we NEED them. They are the most beautiful thing on earth. And it's not for the anti-septic, scientific reasons that some have posted here (i.e. "because it's necessary for the survival of humans.") It's just sad how a few of them try their darndest to throw the idea of the love men have for women on it's ear.

Answer 6

Because a good women inspires a man to do their best. That's what I've been told.

Finding a true soulmate is difficult at best, for anyone, and the sense of peace and happiness you find with the right partner cannot be duplicated.

Answer 7

Whats better than love?

Answer 8

It would be damned boring if we didn't have women to spice up our lives .  What's better to fight for in life than the love of a good woman.

Answer 9

I think it goes back to the first person on earth. Adam.

Adam was lonely by himself and wanted a partner. God then created Eve for Adam so he would have someone to love and be happy with.

But thats just my opinion. Hope this helps. :)

Answer 10

and isn't a woman response normally.  My boyfriend, husband, or husband and then kids?

We want and need a partner...despite the gender differences, people/ humans need it.

Answer 11

Because men's happiness is that special someone! Aka a woman!

Answer 12

yes, its sad, most men are like that and bow and rise at the command of women.

Answer 13

Humans are brainwashed to think that relationships are good. All the problems in the world stem from relationships true love is only for crazy people it doesn't exist. I believe in loving all people but I don't believe in the whole oh I love this one person so much BS, it's c**p.

Answer 14

Why are you concerned about that?

Anyway, for some men , love IS the purpose of life.

Love is simply that powerful xP.

It's natural...what? what's better in this life than fighting for love?

Is there even SOMETHING apart from love and happiness that we can fight for?

I really don't know why you think this, or why are you even concerned about it.

But, my purpose in life is my girlfriend :P

Answer 15

Gett'n laid is right up there at the top of the list along with a fast motorcycle and a good dog.

BTW, ? what's this you are saying about "fight for" ?

Lots of willing women all over the place, certainly no fighting necessary.

Answer 16

According to Dale Carnegie, men have created the greatest inventions all for the love of a woman.  What is better than to share life with someone you love?

Answer 17

noo, whats wrong with living for the opposite s*x

they are the ones that help them create new life

Answer 18

you are right. you may think of the ones that dont need many things inn life and could go on forever alone cause they are men and they can handle it. but the truth is, is that they need women. they need them because it compleates there happiness. men dont need much to make them happy except for a women!

Answer 19

You'd have to fall in love of course to know what it feels like. Happiness to me right now is my boyfriend!!! I love him so much and he makes me so happy, I can be me around him and we have each other's back. it's the best thing in the world!

Answer 20

Well scientifically we, like any species, would die out in a hurry if not for the need to "mate".  So instead of getting into the pros or cons or whys or hows...lets just say it's instinctive?