Why do some people assume that just because you are single, that you need to be "fixed up"?

Question

I would like to get married someday, but I want to make sure that I choose the right woman, who is well-adjusted and mature and intelligent.

There are some though, who think that just because you are single, that you are fair game to be paired off with ANYONE. They have this attitude that just because someone walks upright and has a pulse, then they are dateable.

If she has 17 tattoos, is missing most of her teeth, smokes 4 packs a day, and flunked the 4th grade three times, then I don't want to date her.

Does that somehow make me picky or a bad person?

Answer 1

Dude, "If she has 17 tattoos, is missing most of her teeth, smokes 4 packs a day, and flunked the 4th grade three times," she probably puts out and would have remarkable s*x with you, I'd go for it!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

Answer 2

I dont think your picky or a bad person your just not going to waste time with someone that isent the "one". i tottaly get where your comeing from becasue you just arent gunna go off with some avarage joe you want the person thats out there for you and no one else. just look around and im sure youll find the one and it will be right.

Answer 3

Other people want you to be as miserable as they are . :)

Only is some cases really. I don't know why they do that. I am single and when I want to go out with someone I will ask them. People always seem to want to set me up on blind dates. YUCK.

You are not a bad person and your are allowed to be picky !

Answer 4

It doesn't make you picky or a bad person. You like what you like... nobody can or should be able to dictate that for you. You know what will make you happy better than other people.

People like to think that they are doing a good deed by setting you up with others. When in reality... it can just be very annoying. Keep reminding them that you are fine being single and will date when and whom you see fit.