Why do some "straight" men think like women?

Question

major turn-off?

Answer 1

What does is mean to "think like a woman"??

Answer 2

Tell me.  Just how do women think?  I'm curious.

Answer 3

There is not any personality or brain traits that distinguish all men and all women.

Answer 4

Maybe because they have more experience with women and are more sensitive to women's issues.  That is, they realize a relationship, of any type, is about understanding.

Answer 5

First off, no guy thinks like a woman, considering women don't even think in general.

Answer 6

Why do some women score higher on tests than other women?

Because they are smarter.

What do you mean exactly by 'think like a woman?'

People think differently, only men jump to conclusions faster, refuse to ask for directions, and have testosterone rages.

Answer 7

People think how they think.  It's a mistake to think each s*x thinks a certain way.  What few differences there are have never been proven to be biological, and since male and female babies are treated differently from birth, conditioning is a far more viable reason for those small differences.   People will pretend to be the way their s*x is "supposed" to be, because it's not socially acceptable (to some) not to be, but everybody is happier when they aren't pressured into being a certain way.

I think the question is more worth exploring, why do so many people get freaked out by those don't bend to rules imposed by social dictation?  Why do so many people have such a strong stake in that?  And why is it now worse than it was even in the 50s, when being the macho butch shithead so commonly seen now would have been considered illmannered, uncultured and  ungentlemanly?  (It still is, but when you're illmannered, uncultured and ungentlemanly you don't know that)

Secure men don't have to bend over backwards to prove themselves.  They just are.

Answer 8

These kind of men are effeminized and act like the women in their lives who rule over them.  They have women-like personalities but are heterosexual.

Answer 9

Not to be confused with the manly thinking that went into this question?   :)

Answer 10

Don't destroy the poor guy ladies he just asked a question and probably worded it wrong.  I think he wants to know why being more sensitive to a womens feelings might turn a girl off from him.  She probably dont like sensitive guys so find one that does.

Good luck and watch your wording on your questions.

Answer 11

It's a major turn on for me.At lest there thinking about us first.

Answer 12

I think that most of the straight men that you're referring too who "think like women" are men who've been through a lot with women in their lives. They've taken the lessons they've larned from passed relatoinships with women, and have allowed it to mold them into gentalmen, and not make them bitter like some of you in here.

They've lived long enough to understand that a lot of the mind games and tricks they've played on women in their prime does nothing but make them lonely men in old age. I love a man that can relate to women and not feel like it's taking away from his man-hood. A man that knows to open a door for a woman, speak to a woman respectfully, respect a woman in the  manner in which she respects herself, and most importantly, treats a woman the way he would want someone to treat his mother/sister/aunt/niece. Because a man who "thinks like a woman" understands that when he's dealing with a women, he's dealing with someone elses mother/sister/aunt/niece. To me that's s**y! because you don't see many men like that around any more.

And why would a straight man who "thinks like a woman" be a major turn-off for you? Are you g*y? You like men?

Answer 13

Maybe if you would start, things would start improving for you.

Answer 14

It's true that some g**s pretend to be straight, but can you be more specific on what you mean by "thinking" like women?