Why do some unmarried men take joy in ruining the marriages of others?

Question

It's like they enjoy playing with the minds of women, knowing they don't want to marry them, they just want to play this game.. I don't even know what to call it... but why do they do this? I'm talking about even if the woman has not slept with the man... why would he even attempt to put a wedge between a husband and wife?

Answer 1

The single man is not the one putting the wedge between the husband and the wife. The person that is trying to cheat is.  

Answer 2

why would you let him?

Answer 3

Misery loves company

Answer 4

GREAT Question......I have no idea, I think it cause the rotten SOB's just want to see if they can do it.  

Answer 5

Cause these men have no respect for another man's marriage.

Answer 6

For the same reason a woman does the same thing. They are insecure and have no life so they are trying to get someone elses. It boosts their pathetic ego to take a woman away from another man.

Answer 7

i think it is the chase because it happened to me. THEN it got physical between them she said she would rather have been with him then me and i was honestly more disappointed at her than him.

Answer 8

Power,

Small men always want Power.

(mentally and physically... you know...the old thing...women know that men that smoke cigars have small...ahummms and they are trying to MAKE UP for their inadequacies

Jealousy of others as well as other men.

Sometimes a competition thing, you got it and I don't so I am going to destroy yours, ha ha ha!

If that couple is happy, that makes them feel smaller and more inadequate so they destroy it so they don't feel so much a failure.

Sometimes they destroyed a GOOD THING themselves and your GOOD THING OF A GOOD MARRIAGE in public, reminds them of the damage they did to someone else, and reminds them of what they lost, so they try to destroy yours so it is not constantly rubbed in their face.

Then there is that thing...of POWER again...

If I get to s***w yours, then I get to s***w you....ha ha, I am on top of you!  POWER.

Revenge....you messed with mine, I will destroy yours...

You got her and I didn't so I will show you...

You got the contract...so I will get your wife...

You had an affair with my...wife...girlfriend...mistress...etc.... I will get your ..whatever...out of REVENGE..!!

You have a wife, and several mistresses..and I am jealous...so I will destroy what you have...out of jealousy because I can't juggle so many like you can...

You are messing around on the side...so I am letting HER know there is something going on....that she is being left alone at home...so I will take care of her ....FOR YOU...ha ha!!!

Then there is a cultural thing...Some cultures...have no value on others mates.....it is open season...no matter what....

So what if you are married, or not married...they are just dogs, and will s***w ANYTHING that doesn't CRAWL OFF.....

You have noticed that...no business dealings or any conversation

can be done...without specific cultures...raising the issue...

of getting it on...

It is very hard to do work ....since they always think with their crotch, and business either ends abruptly as the insulted walks out, and the offender always wonders why they are left out of business...someone is always trying to KEEP THEM DOWN...when it is just they are thinking with the wrong head...

Then there is the business deal...if the husband and wife have a business together...if they can separate the wife and husband...they are in fact separating BUSINESS PARTNERS.....and then the business is weaker...and the other person gets the deal, or the UP ON them in business....gets bigger, or more powerful, or gets the contract, and they stay small...

REMEMBER THE POWER GAME...

Or if they can distract the man by messing with his wife, they get his mind spinning and they get the deal, instead of him.

Remember this...no matter if your mate is a real jerk or ditz head, WHEN SOMEONE ELSE STARTS PUTTING THEM DOWN...IN ANY WAY...LOOKOUT...THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND...NOR DO THEY WISH YOU WELL.....THEY ARE THERE TO DESTROY...AND IF YOU FALL FOR IT...YOU ARE KICKING YOURSELF IN THE FACE.....THEY WILL TAKE YOU DOWN WITH YOUR MATE...

Answer 9

Same reason why women dont want that single guy but chase a married man.

They want to see if they can pull it off.

It is a thrill to them

But to me if they know if my wife was married then a thrashing would come his and my wife's way

I guess this is way I remain single lol