Why do some women find it so hard to find a single man?

Question

It seems to me as though they are not looking for a single man. If their best friend has a really great boyfriend, instead of trying to find one like him, they try to take her boyfriend. Why are some women like that? Do they not realize that men are not at all hard to find? I just don't get it.

Answer 1

when people try so hard they end up finding nothing.But when they try less the find some 1.its all in waiting.

Answer 2

Maybe the girl doesn't think her friend is worth the man she has.  I would never do that to someone but I have seen some girls who deserve it.

Answer 3

Because the women talking are usually married but looking for a single man.

Answer 4

I think the women who are after other girls' boyfriends aren't really in it for the guy, it's more like a game to them. They like to prance around and dangle the goods in front of someone who is taken just for the thrill of it...because if she can tear him away from a dedicated relationship, she must be something special--in her own twisted mind, anyway.

Answer 5

Honestly, it seems like a lot of women like to "show off" their boyfriend and brag about him to all their friends.  These women like to be seen as having great boyfriend to boost their social status, as if their man is the newest prada handbag or something.  This in turn makes their boyfriend a commodity to be stolen by others.

Answer 6

Could it be that they are looking but are just not interested with what they see?  If that is the kind of best friends you have, then perhaps it is time for some new friends, no?  Perhaps the difficulty lies in finding an attractive single man that they are interested in do you not think so.  =P

Answer 7

If a woman acts like that, she is just desperate.

To mess up a friendship by taking her bff's man is just wrong

on so many levels!

I'm single now and have been for a while and it really doesnt bother me. I'm letting nature take its course.

But there is no problem flirting every now and then :-) Just to push it along a little more lol

Answer 8

Women have a hard time finding single men because men today are held at an impossible standard. Women are often attracted to other women's men because they're insecure about what they want in a man and trust other women's judgement over their own. So if a man has a woman, other women think "Wow, he must be worth something if someone values him."

Answer 9

sometimes...though..

idiotic married men or men with gf..will try to have something to do with you.

i get it on yahoo chat alot..

Ill be talking to a guy..i may even be getting along with him..may be interested..im flirting..he is flirting..

then he reveals he is married..

i mean come on! the last the i wanna be is the other woman.

Answer 10

I think the biggest problem is that they do not believe in themselves. A good friend would help them feel better about themselves and their ability to attract a good single man.

Answer 11

lazy low self esteem, the win will make them feel better somehow, not realizing he does it WITH you he will do it to you.

Answer 12

Because all the good ones are g*y

Answer 13

I'm sure that gorgeous women like you do not have a hard time finding men. (I never did when I was young, skinny, and cute.) But not everyone has such an easy time of it. That doesn't make it okay to steal someone else's man, though.

Answer 14

I think Alec Baldwin put it best when he said that when girls see a wedding ring it's a sign of stability, they know he's got to have a little money, at least somebody can stand the SOB, and his ccok must work.

This isn't just true in relationship stuff.  I had some garage sale stuff I didn't want so I left it out overnight with a free sign.  Nobody touched it.  I put prices on it and it disappeared the next night.

Answer 15

For the same reason that a poor man has a hard time finding a single woman.

Answer 16

For some very odd reason, there is more appeal for a woman when a man is taken and unavailable...plus, women OFTEN brag to each other about how good the guy is in bed and thats just advertising to the other woman.

Its why i NEVER tell my guy friends about s*x with my gf...they can find their own women.

Answer 17

Most women seem to be drawn to the drama caused by an unobtainable relationship.  Your curiosity in this matter makes you one of the few.  Thank you.

Answer 18

I don't know why some women are like that unless it's a "I have power over you" kinda thing. That's very mean spirited of them and they're not worth being friends with.

I never had trouble finding a single man when I was a single gal. But I was active in sports (SCUBA, swimming, baseball, motorcycles, etc.) and these used to be 'typically' male events. I found lots of prospective mates that way until I married the best one and 29 years later we're still together. Best friends make the best spouses. [smile] ♥ ∞