Why do some women...?

Question

How come some women don't understand what men go through? Like if there are hard times at work, they act like they don't care, say something shallow, or say something that makes it worse?

Answer 1

Because women go through a lot more then men. Men are aways complaining and women don't even when they should be the ones complaining. Men are stupid and inconsiderate- so you know what? That is a stupid question of yours!

Answer 2

This question is very interesting and requires details. But am sure you dont have that much time..

My dear, its always wrong to start by pointing fingers. In most cases, men  do not mind to communicate to our wives/girls friends what they intend to do or what is going on in their lives , and when the plan or program back fires, they expect their wives to understand what they are going through and be caring.

My dear, how will i know if you don't let me know? If you tell me before hand, i might be able to guess, and act accordingly(this also will make the conversation be pospond to a better moment, because i already know what is going on in your life).

But also remember that , i also have my own stress,, and if you have not been listening to or  minding about what i go through(stressful days), then please its very difficult for me to start all of the sudden to be sweeter to you(besides i might be locked up in my own stressful day that was).

What am trying to say is that, its both our fault.And this is brought about by poor communication and how you treat your wife/girl friend.

Also, some men have got out burst at this particular time in that,they only want to hear what thier inner self tells them and nothing else.If he thinks his wife has always nothing better to say, then it will be very difficult for him to see the wife's approach towards his situation.

But if communication is good all these can not be happening.

So times, we tend to think more about what we want mostly and aspect it instantly from our spouses, yet you put little effort to please the other as well. It is a two way thing.

Just look back on how you have be behaving lately and am sure you will find the answer to this particular question.

Thanks for asking dear

Answer 3

Stop whineing..and listen to your woman.

Answer 4

No room for over-inflated ego in either gender, is there?

Answer 5

Woman can't understand us because we have testosterone and we are violent

edit: why am I getting thumbs downs, Its makes me mental

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Answer 6

I would not even say some women.  Let's be honest.  One woman did this.  If you want to know why you should ask her.

Answer 7

Because they can't relate. It's hard to understand someone's problem when it's a problem that you have never had and will never have.

Answer 8

some people only care for themselfs. this applies to both men and women. unfortunately, some women only care about how much money their husbands promotion will mean in terms of their own personal needs.

Answer 9

you're making it seem like we're ALL like that when we're not....please dont do that...

Answer 10

PMS

Answer 11

it all depends on what kind of women u r with...i always try to support my husband n try to make him feel better if he didnt had a good day at work

Answer 12

Some women are insensitive just like some men are. Bitchy high maintenance girls, and when I say high maintenance I mean personality, not the way they look, are like that. Try going for a more down to earth girl. They can spend just as much time on how they look but their personality is awesome too.

Answer 13

I don't that. Maybe its just the women you've been with.

Now, answer my question:

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Answer 14

I'm too busy working hard and raising a child to care that you are working hard. Cry me a river.

Answer 15

Well I would first like to say this goes both ways...all ways.  There are men, women, parents, poor, rich, etc. that are unable to see what others go through, or put themselves in another person's shoes.

Mostly I think this has to do with selfishness and immaturity.

Tracey- Aren't there men out there raising children as well.  Do cannot you not balance a child and a relationship?

Answer 16

Those women are of the notion that the guy is supposed to be there for them. They don't see how what happens to the guy outside of themselves has anything to do with anything.

Answer 17

I had an ex that used to complain alot about his job, i would try to be there for him. But then when i would have a hard time at work he would give me a response like "well you dont do real work like i do".

Answer 18

Because men have to be tough...That is why we rule the world more men are leaders than women. Learn to suck it up.

Answer 19

Same reason that some men don't understand what women go through...

Answer 20

Just a hunch- maybe because women go through tough times at work as well. But we suck it up and manage to cook you dinner and put kids to bed. SO to be honest, it may just be that most women are utterly fed up with men's weakness and whining and then anger (that they spill out on Y!) that their precious egos were not carressed by a pussycat purring into his ear; a pussycat who is too busy supervising your kids' homework.

As I said, just a hunch

Answer 21

I'm not sure what you are referring to, but I think it's normal for women not to understand what men go through  just as it can be expected for men not to understand what women go through.

I think it's important both to try and understand each other better rather than seeking out who's right all the time.

If a man wants to be understood, he is free to attempt to communicate that in a non-threatening way. I think many men aren't taught how to do that.

It's true, I don't always understand what my bf goes through and likewise for him towards me, he tries to explain it to me and I understand him better after that.

Answer 22

because women are sick and tired of men, thay act the same way when women have a hard time

Answer 23

Obviously these women are lacking a profound human characteristic....a little something I like to call compassion.