Why do straight women treat straight guys very badly but they are very nice to g*y men?

Question

her boyfriend is very jealous of me and always nagging me why she is very happy with me but always fighting with him, don't know what to say to him , any idea?

Answer 1

Many women do not see g*y men as a threat or as just trying to sleep with them many see g*y men as TRUE friends!  

Answer 2

A g*y guy can be like a str8 woman best female friend-even if the g*y guy isn't feminine. Str8 men tend to get overly defensive and territorial with other men, but us women do do it too.

Offer to hang with him, just the two of you. He'll either do it and see how non-threating you are to his relationship or he'll loathe the idea and shut the h**l up and let you and his girl maintain the friendship.

Sounds like one less d1ck you need in your life!!!

Answer 3

g*y men arent staring at their b***s

Answer 4

Probably because straight women and g*y men have a lot more in common. It varies from person to person.  

Answer 5

Because they are inherently evil.

I don't have any proof.

But the theory is still sound.

Answer 6

g*y men are somewhat or likely feminine that's why they're nice to them

Answer 7

Well....Mostly because is that most of the guys i know are jerks for different reasons... and i also have a guy friend who is not g*y but i am very nice to him...depends on the guy.... but most people think that straight guys are only after one thing which isnt true.... and nonstraight guys are more friendly to women then striaght men are  

Answer 8

They are not worried about g*y guys hitting on them.

Answer 9

because g*y men are not a threat to them - they don't want/exp[ect s*x, so they don't have to worry about itq

Answer 10

perhaps because women know what g*y men are missing. they try to make the g*y men realize what they are missing by being nice to them, and showing them what they (women) possess. and another reason could be that women are relatively safer with g*y men, since they know that g*y men would not attack them.

Answer 11

Because she is not sleeping with the g*y guy.  

Answer 12

Because g*y men are 'safe'.  Women can be themselves around g*y men in ways we can't around straight men.

Answer 13

idk

i hate that two-faced way of thinking.

ti doesnt matter if ure g*y or str8 or bi or whoever.

we're all still men.

and all men derserve respect.

they should not be treated differently because their sexual orientation, or what they do or who they are.

sum women luv to pick fights with their bfs (ugh)

if i were in a relationship with a women, i dont mind fighting, if its a normal couples fight, but if she continues to annoy the h**l outta of me, and take adavatage of me, i might as well, dump her and go out with her "nice" g*y friend.

=P

not all str8 women are mean though, i mean look at Pam from "The Office" awwww shes so adorable and sweet. i would luv a gf like that, shes so cute ^.^ and so s**y i luv her tummy..well her body...(ok getting out of topic lol)

Answer 14

because they consider g*y guys as "1 of the girls" lol

Answer 15

B/c g*y men are one of the girls!!

And he won't be hitting on anyone other girls!!  Plus we can talk about HOTT guys together!!

Answer 16

The way I see it, women aren't mean to straight guys really, they are just more emothionally vested, so to say.  With a g*y guy, they are comfortable, relaxed as if they don't necessarrily have to put their best face forward. Plus, g*y men are usually the "listening ear" to women with problems.  

To him I would simply say what kind of person you are.  This is basically saying that she is reacts better to your kind of personality and the way you are able to communicate critisism without hurting her feelings (making assumptions here).  I'm straight, but often get called metro etc... but I'm treated very well by women, because I'm a nice guy.  Now it depends how old these guys are too, but that's another discussion.

To answer your question though, you do need to say something because you are being dragged into this and it's building resentment and tension.  If I were you I would talk to both of them.

Tell the girl that her boyfriend probably feels like c**p always being told he's not good enough the way he is and he is always being compared to you.  It's not fair to him.  She should instead say what she likes and complement him on the things he does right and tell him when she doesn't like what he does.  It needs to be simple.

I'd tell the guy that she's just frustrated.  She probably likes him, but wants him to be better (but are her expectations unrealistic?).  I'd tell him to listen to her and try to quit doing what bothers her so much.  But also he should let her know what he's not willing to change.  There needs to be more face to face communication.  If you feel comfortable I would talk to both of them at the same time, I do this with my friends if there is unnecessarry tension, you'd be surprised how well it works.  

Good luck bud.

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