Why do the obese women in the office have it out for the girls that aren't huge?

Question

The piggies stare and look away when you look back and annoy you, the stuff their faces all day and gossip about you when you turn your back. They act like the dress code police and they jump on the opportunity to talk down on you, especially if they're higher up.

Answer 1

Honestly you cant complain because as we speak you have stooped to the low level they have so actually you are no different. Somehow some way I'm a thin girl and I know some average women are actually jealous of big women too. I'm not saying this is the case but it just might as well could be your sorry attempt to hate the society's pin cushion but deep down you wish you had those big headlights like the plush women have. All in all sweetheart trust me not everyone wants to be your size or envy's your bulging collar bone so get off your high horse and GET TO WORK!

Answer 2

it's just you

Answer 3

Honestly they are just jealous. They are unhappy with their bodies, but a lot of the time have no motivation to work out or eat healthier. Ignore them and don't give them the satisfaction, you shouldn't feel bad about being slim!! They are the ones who should be embarrased. They act like the dress code police because secretly they wish they could wear more form fitting clothing and actually make it look good. When they see someone who is slim wearing form fitted clothes or maybe a lower cut top they make a comment because they are jealous. It is something that really bothers me too, nine out of ten times they are eating fast food and doing nothing to help their situation, so I have really NO SYMPATHY towards them. Don't let it get to you!!!!

Answer 4

I really don't think it has anything to do with what size you are, or what size they are.  Look at the question you are asking.  What do stuffing their faces and gossiping about you have to do with each other?

They obviously have a personal problem with you and your personality.  And from your question....I understand why.

Answer 5

Sounds like a personal problem.

Answer 6

J it is you.  I have been overweight all my life and some of my best friends are thin.  So once again "you are the problem".  When people are talking about you in the office - it is certainly something they dislike about you.  And when you call other people animals - I know it's all about you.  

Answer 7

My wife worked in a call center once, now she is a tiny girl round 120lbs the heifers there used to steal her lunch and snacks like they needed it, and they brought a cooler full of food. They do that because they do not have the self control to control their weight. I always love it when they say well since the birth of my child I have gotten heavy but that will go away, and you look and their kids are 5 years old. Or the supersized Micky Dee's meal ordered then add a diet coke. They are jealous because because they wish they could look like you, but are too full of excuses, and basically hate themselves, cannot admit it, so project that on you

Answer 8

maybe their jealous of you.Sometimes they feel threatened by a younger person. I 've been there. don't be judgemental. I use to have a mouth of a truck driver, but now looking back on it , it wasn't proper. the best thing is to be happy and nice, that's what they'll hate.

keep your head up

Answer 9

sounds like a mutual crappy attitude to me.  maybe you all should be counseled by the hr department in work place awareness.