Why do the others misjudge me???

Question

I am 16 years old and I am a pretty girl but I have never had a boyfriend because I don't want to have one... but I am an alive energetic girl and I have a lot of friends, and that's the reason why people think I am a bad girl... even my friends don't believe me when I tell them I have never had a boyfriend because I think these relationships at this age don't last and are not serious. many boys have asked me to go out with them but I don't like this kind of relationship. I am waiting for the right moment. what do you think?

Answer 1

Its fine, just ignore people that don't believe you,

you can do what you want when it comes to this stuff, make your own decisions.

Sure, your right that most relationships at that age don't last and are not at all serious

but it can be fun for some people, as long as its all safe and nothing too far

when your that young.  

Answer 2

great habit keep going, don't mind others views and suggestion, live for yourself,  Try to make others happy.  Be hhumors and be as you like. I think you are fine girl.

Answer 3

Not a bad idea if that is how you feel. I think a lot of high school is about growing socially and dating or having relationships at that time kind of helps one develop socially. But if you have friends and are comfortable in your own skin with that idea of waiting then stick to your guns,be yourself and you should be fine.

Answer 4

people are scared of difference then they try to rationalize it,  in other words your different and the only way they understand it  is by saying you must be a bad girl personally i think you are very mature for your years.

Answer 5

I think you should be the person you want to be, if you wish to wait for someone who you think is special that's for you to decide, good for you by the way, the special ones are worth waiting for.

Answer 6

LOL honey people just can't believe some women want to be very picky. You continue the way you are and you wont have to put up with all the duds the other girls have to go through to find the right one.

Young people seem to rush into relationships now, dropping one and quickly picking up another. They don't take the time to figure out what they want in a boyfriend or a relationship. They go in with fairytale expectations, and nothing will live up to that.

When they start with their ribbing, just tell them you are taking time to observe their mistakes, so you can learn what not to do.

Answer 7

First of all, you can't really wait for a right moment. It's like waiting for the end of the world. I mean... Nobody sleeps with his/her first girlfriend/boyfriend. It might happen, but you can't be sure. So... Go out with whoever you want and have fun. Love and be loved. But don't have s*x yet if you think you're not ready.

Answer 8

You do what you want hun...  take your time. Everyone seems to know best don't they?!?

Answer 9

I think your on the right track.

Answer 10

I THINK YOU ARE THE SMART ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Take care of yourself first, then if you want to get into a relationship later then fine. Believe me>>>your friends are needier then you are. I think your VERY SMART!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

There is something to be said about dating and learning what you want and what you don't want in a relationship. Dating prepares you for the special long-term relationship. You don't have to get serious with a guy you date. Also, you're friends don't know the real you if they don't believe you never had a boyfriend. But who cares, you will on your own terms.  

Answer 12

Ha you sound just like me!

Answer 13

Its worth waiting, for you and for the lucky person you choose. The only difference between boys that are your friends and your boyfriend is the that you're physically intimate with your boyfriend. you need male friends to prepare you mentally with knowledge of how and what males think, without sleeping with them. Your still young, a few more years in the world will teach you that what your looking for is actually a 'Manfriend'. Dont be rushed into having a boyfriend, but be open to having genuine friends that are boys it will help when you find what your looking for.

Answer 14

I think you sound like a really good girl, don't change!! Stick to your guns.