Why do the people i trust do this to me???

Question

today i and one of my frnds were going to start a tution class right after school , she knew where the tution centre was , i didnt knew it, at school i told her that we both will go together and also that i didnt knew the way to tution centre, but she left without me , wen i reached her home , she had already left , that's wat her sister told me, i was very upset wen i got back home, coz she couldnt wait for me!

my mother told me to have a little rest ,so, i went for a nap, while i was asleep she called and told my mom that she left coz she thought that i knew the way and i was coming on my own. those were all lame excuses.

should i call her and talk about the matters ?? i havent called her till now and find it against my self respect!

wat to do , all this is going on in my mind and thus i cant concentrate on my studies, wat's going on in my mind is why she did this to me??

wat to do??

Answer 1

does she do this all the time?  if so, i would drift away from her because she is selfish and not really a true friend.

Answer 2

It could be a misunderstanding but if you feel that she has done it intentionally then youre right because she is not your real friend and if she is then she would have taken you along with her.

I guess she is jealous of your intelligence or she is afraid that you may not leave her behind in the studies or she must have been pressurized by either by her parents or by her elder sister.

i feel the last option (pressurized) because she is with you in school and a school mind in or for friends dont think so its the parents that make them think so.

Because I had a friend I cant tell his name.

He used to be my best friend but kept on cheating me.

once I was talking to him on phone he didnt kept the phone properly and I heard what his mother was teaching him.

His Mother told him that:

It's ok he is our friend but it doesnt mean that you should help him you should try to do much better then him so that you can showdown him and always have an upper hand on him.

If you will do this he would always do as ou say to him and will always be jealous of you.

I dont know why his mother taught him this she could taught him to be a topper in the class but why to showdown me.

But even after this stuff I dont think that it was my friends mistake it was his mothers mistake and now I am just an acquaintance to him.

Answer 3

Yeah!! You should go ahead & call her to know what went wrong & she could not make it to hold back for you.

Makin interpretations widout know what actually was wrong dosent makes sence.

May be she is used to for get things.. :D.. U'll invent that bout her then... No harms in knowing ppl d better way?! Isnt it?

& yeah.. dont b upset.. It was yo first day!! Must b just an introductory lecture.. ;) take lite!

Answer 4

this'll pass

dun worry so much abt it

Answer 5

she might have someone one to meet before the class so dont worry its just a privacy is important... and you got to be independant somewhere in life... just relax she is still your best friend and will always be if you discuss it .... and dont be upset....

good luck

Answer 6

Be yourself, and don't interact with her much. If she comes to you within three days to sort things out, its good.

If not, you have got your answer about what she thinks of you.

Don't break the friendship. Just find new friends.

Hope this would help...

Answer 7

there are good friends like us,who care about our friends...

then there are friends like your friend,who are just selfish ppl who care about themselvees only because they don't care about us.

my sister bbf did that to my sister.

its better you have a talk with her.

everythin will be better.

also,uhm,even if i dont know the place,i try to find it on the computer and go by myself or ONLY if my friends ask mee.

cause i dont want them to think that im just using them.

but whatever,best of luck.

maybe it was totally an accident.

settle this problem right away&dont try to keep it to yourself.

mhmkayy.wells have a good day.

bbye byee

=)

Answer 8

This is such a trivial issue - do not let this worry you or ruin your friendship.

A casual chat about this issue should settle your doubts.

However, I want to bring something very important that could be useful as you get on with life.

Remember, the strangers whom you see on the way to work, on the way back from work, at the gym or the local store or several hundred thousands of them in your village/town or city - is not going to cheat you.

It is the one on whom you have your trust - who will win your confidence and then take your for a ride.

It is an art in today's world to judge people. If you can master this art - nothing can bother you at all