Why do these girls bother me so much?

Question

i'm 14, going into 8th grade, and in 5th grade i was friends w/ these triplets, and i got into a fight w/ one of them who i was closest to, and since then, them and all their friends have hated me soo much. so for middle school i went to another middle school in the same district, to start fresh, but in 7th grade i found alot of people from my school were friends w/ people from their school including them! and there was this girl who acted like my friend, but really she was my fake friend & was friends w/ the triplets & they caused a ton of drama, writing me really mean notes, saying bad things about me, etc.

theyre all popular & everyone likes them, but they take so much time to bother me, and i dont get why they cant just go have fun w/ their popular friends and either leave me alone...or just get along w/ me. i dont hate them, and i have nothing against them.

why do they try to bother me so much?

why dont they leave me alone??

Answer 1

I think the triplets have a huge problem with you and they're telling everyone they know to hate on you. I know it sounds selfish and cruel but hey, some people are just like that. Just ditch the girl and all the people who are associated with the triples/their friends and find REAL friends who will treat you right. You seem like a totally cool person and they should have nothing against you like how you have nothing against them.

They're just bothering you to make you feel down, get attention, cause drama or just because they find it entertaining. They're bullies and you shouldn't hang out or be around them. Try avoiding them or ignoring them completely and they'll get bored of harrassing you =]

In the meantime just go find a new group of friends and they'll stick up for you. Same thing happened to me and i almost transferred schools because of the bullying going on (but they wouldn't let me)!

So good luck! <33

Answer 2

i had the exact same thing happen to me except they were twins...

they bother you because they do the little things which irk you to the point of oblivion ...

find another group of people who are truly your friends and ignore those triplets...if you don't react to them they'll get really annoyed....pretend they don't exist...life's to short to deal with petty drama...

Answer 3

They don't leave you alone because they know they're getting to you. Ignore them, and if they say shizzle, give them shizzle.

Answer 4

This is fun and entertaining to them.  That doesn't make it right, but this is their way of having fun with each other.  That and they are nasty and vindictive