Why do they need it?

Question

Alright at my school girls always suck up. I know one girl who is constantly happy and I mean constantly. When she broke up her her boy friend, she was crying extremely hard but still smiling. I don't mean just a natural smile, it was a forced smile, she was trying to look happy. Now I applaud her for trying to make the best of it, but it gets to the point where it becomes annoying. For example, she doesn't like me or my friends (I have no idea why), but she insists on acting like shes our best friend. I know she doesn't like me because everytime she's not in public she is always so cold to me and my friends and mean. She also has to be perfect, she has this image and if you tarnish it, shes thinks its the end of the world. For example, she has always been a "star writer", so one time her and I both entered a contest and I broke her winning streak. She acted like I had stole something from her. She needs to have all the attention, all the glory and she is fake. I am not jelouse (cont.)

Answer 1

ummm well i hope you realize that once you graduate you are probably never going to see her again soooooo does it really matter?? So whats your question??? im confused about what you are asking......ok i see it now. well dont worry about it... your letting those people win by making it a big deal...its giving them the attention they want...let her be like that...just accept it and be the better person by ignoring her... if she confronts you than just agree with whatever she says and i bet that will tick her even more when she cant respond...lol..and if she wants to be a two face with you..well let her but dont waste your time with her trying to make her be nice to you...does it really matter that she be nice to you?? there are ALWAYS going to be people who dont treat you the way they should, whether it be because of jealousy or whatever...you have been exposed to one of those people...good luck and hope i helped.

Answer 2

ok, honestly, they have issues. usually there's a deeper side to why they act like that that people normally don't know about. but for some, it can just be their personality. the main thing is try to not let them get to you. i know this seems pretty cliche, but its the truth. as long as you continue to be who you are and look at the positive sides, you should be okay. i hope things get better for you. good luck.