Why do we do this when we are mad?

Question

yes i already asked this...but i wasnt very clear...

ok when i get angry with the t.v, video games, or computer... i angrily bite the remote, video game controler, or the mouse to the computer...or a near by object like an animal and i cant controle myself...do you do this too?

Answer 1

never bite but throw.

Answer 2

Oh my God! I used to do this when I was younger playing Nintendo. We still have it and you can see where the bite marks are! LOL!!! My sister used to do it too! Anyway, I don't bite things anymore because it hurts my teeth, but I do scream into pillows when I'm frustrated.

Answer 3

no we don't do this it's bad very bad

well i m sorry to say but need to consult someone if u can't control urself

Answer 4

In the words of freud, you have an oral fixation.

To the infant, the mother's breast not only is the source of food and drink, but also represents her love. Because the child's personality is controlled by the id and therefore demands immediate gratification, responsive nurturing is key. Both insufficient and forceful feeding can result in fixation in this stage.

Symptoms are but not limited to : Smoking, Constant chewing on gum, pens, pencils, etc. ,Nail biting, Overeating, Drinking, Sarcasm ("the biting personality") and verbal hostility, etc....

A more sane opnion? you have difficulties finding a release of your immediate anger problem.  So you find an immediate release on what ever you can. Practice controling your anger.  when you get angry, make yourself NOT BITE. and immediatly scream in a pillow or squeeze and tighten your hands...then try taking some deep breaths. and take a break from what it is that is angering you.

Answer 5

I used to bite things, then I stopped biting things and starting throwing things, and now I'm in the pillow-screaming stage.

I was told that you do it because as humans, our natural instinct is aggression, and when we get frustrated, like from the computer, our natural instinct is to inflict harm on it.

Sometimes it also helps to just walk away.

Answer 6

"bite?" lol... no.

I might throw a remote, but I won't bite it.

you bite animals? :-/