Why do we fail when we express our love?

Question

you are so live and noisy and active and he is sooo cold blooded and not clingy or demonstrative in showing emotions.

you really want to tell him you like him,maybe not directly...have you ever done it and regreted later?

in such situation yesterday i texted my bf a naughty and still lovely message in a childish way he hasnt written anything to me yet ...

i feel guilty sending it...though i dont see anything wrong with expressing my feeling in that way him not answering made me depressed...

Answer 1

Married women should not be sending naughty texts to their boyfriends.  For that matter, you should not have a boyfriend at all!

Answer 2

im not sure how is ur realtion between you and your BF... but before you rush things and come to conglutions... maybe he was busy or his cellphone for some reason closed... or maybe he was in a bad mood not wanting to share with you at that moment...

we think of men as strange because they cant show their emotions as much as woman do..( thats why we are better with bringing up children lol) ..but it does not mean that they dont love deeply.. they just show it differently and in the time were they think "this is the right moment"... maybe you are very emotional and need to show your love ...expecting you get the same in return... but remember not everyone is the same.. there is different caracters and personalities... look back in time... if he treated you always well then dont worry about it if he wasnt in the mood to answer you this time... and im sure he will come around and feel bad inside somehow... but if he was treating you always careless ... then its time to move on...

so heads up ..it will be alright!! :-))

sorry my english is not perfect but i hope you did understand my point

Answer 3

I understand your position. It's like, sending a message to an empty tin. Well perhaps you'd like to sit down and talk with your boyfriend about whats bugging you?

Answer 4

Opening yourself "up" about your emotions and how you feel towards someone makes us ALL feel a little anxiety because we're exposing our inner-self.  That's perfectly NORMAL.

You're "depressed" because you wanted to experience reciprocity.  That's NORMAL, too.  And we ALL want immediate gratification when it comes to love and the admiration of the person we're attracted to.

But Rome wasn't built in a day.  Neither is a relationship.  Please!  Give the guy "the benefit of the doubt" and a little "time".  Afterall. . .YOU made the "move"; which I would have advised AGAINST.  But it's done now.  Remember, though, that guys LIKE A CHALLENGE!    If you make things too easy. . .you'll appear EASY !!!  And NO guy likes an "easy" girl for LONG !!!!!!!!!!  'Cause that means everyone ELSE has had you, too.  A sad fact of life.  But that's what guys think !!!!!!!!!!   And I don't care WHAT they tell you otherwise !!!!!!!!!!  Always stay a "little" mysterious !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

idk

Answer 6

Calm down. Men are just like that. They're just not good in showing women how they feel. Ever wonder why their romantic gestures seem too wonderful for us women? It's basically because those things do not happen so often, it's just their nature so don't stop whatever you're doing or be hesitant in showing him your emotions through your own ways, that's good and makes them feel good.

Answer 7

he won't be able to fulfill your emotional needs

so try to move on

GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

He isn't worth it.

Well, that's my opinion.

You might also want to try talking to him,

if not.

Well, move on.

You'll fine someone better. :)

Answer 9

You are wasting your time with him. He sounds like a sponge. In other words when you put into him, he sucks it us and then it evaporates, which leaves you with a dry sponge.

Find someone who will reciprocate your attention. It's much more rewarding .

Answer 10

Hmm, I'm sorry to read this.

The only suggestion I can think of right now is that you call him, and ask him how he is. If he does happen to mention the text message in a negative manner, just apologize and say that you really meant to show your love and admiration towards him, and not to be crude (if he thought of it that way).

Anyway, if he's a mature and understanding guy, then he probably see your true intentions as someone who cares.

Hopefully this is just one of those small hiccups that will blow over.

Good luck.

Answer 11

expressing feelings are an individual thing, so there is nothing wrong with what you did, what is wrong is that you want to be treated the same way, however it does not mean your guy doesnt love you but he does not need to be like you or behalf exactly like you, why cant you learn to appreciate for being himself and see the real him than to be a fake man.

Answer 12

This man clearly won't be able to fulfill your emotional needs, so why waste your time?  I wouldn't.