Why do we need plessure?

Question

if you have feelings to some one,can you get him to your side

Answer 1

Too much pleasure will make the heart weaker in the sense that you get really afraid of loosing these pleasures and make it harsher in the sense that you loose compassion for others.

On the other hand, too little pleasure would make the heart harsher also because you feel one of two: either "everyone is in pain, so live with it" or "if I'm the only one in pain then why should I be compassionate with others, they should be with me".

We need a health mix of pleasure and pain to have a healthy heart (in terms of its feeling, not its physical function).

Answer 2

I think we should seek happiness, not pleasure

Answer 3

Beautiful yet 'worthy' pleasures will make the heart stronger..

Life filled with colors. Brought even from simple joys of pleasure..

To have the strength to face unpleasant things in life. Knowing that its opposite still just exist too somehow on the other side. Learning from each both phases. As to feel the quality of living.

If you have feelings worthy of getting her attention. In the most possible way. 'Hope might be bigger than imagined. If only you can act for your heart's desire..