Why do white men place higher expectations on women than black men to have a fit body with a nice figure.?

Question

I cashier at Walmart and I see a lot of out of shape white men walking with d**n near models. I just wanted to know why white women or women in general dont raise their standards of the partners they choose. Yes i took sociology and my teacher discussed partners of the same attractiveness marry each other but this is not the case.

Answer 1

Black women were equal partners in social and economic slavery and were better armed than white gals raised on "if you don't marry and have children," you are a failure as a woman. Whites, especially the men falsely believe that tribal wisdom is primitive as it does recognize that women may be different but do possess the other half of human success potential.  Why more white women have not welcomed their darker skinned sisters is beyond my ken, but then their mothers raised them as desperate and their fathers spread the myths of all blacks are inferior and the women have low self esteem...ladies if you haven't learned to identify the odor of bull excrement by now, please spend a weekend in Texas.

Answer 2

Yep.  That describes a lot of people, because of something called marriage.  I'm sure he looked a lot different when they first said "I do."  Now she's saying, "I must."

Answer 3

There is a cultural difference in what we are taught and what we think is beautiful.

White women are taught at a young age that skin and bones is pretty.  White men pick up on this as young men.

Black women are taught at a young age that soft, feminine curves are pretty.  Black men pick up on this as young men.

Sometimes, Biologically, the female sub conscience picks up on our ancestor's  "Bigger guy is stronger and therefore safer" theory of survival.  I think that may be why you see fit women with bigger men.  Also, they may not have been fat at the beginning and just ended up that way.

I personally take good care of my body and am attracted to men who do the same, no matter what their race.

Answer 4

I dunno about this whole White & Black thing, but what i have noticed is a lot of UGLY guys with beautiful women.

This guy in my math class straight up said, ``I want my girl to have no flaws``....LOL, I could fill an encyclopedia listing off all his flaws.

You know what that is?It`s double standards! It`s people have expections out of others that they`re not even meeting themselves...ugh.

Answer 5

Women in general would choose someone who wasn't so attractive because he would know it and would appear just as attractive to other women. Us women get waaaaaaay more jealous than you fellas so we can afford to lower our standards for the sake of clinging onto our mentality.

Answer 6

Good looking men deserve good looking women.  

Answer 7

women are just looking for a MAN.  most women want to stay home and have kids with a working spouse.  

Answer 8

cause we love our fat chubby guys.

Answer 9

I think black men don't share alot of society's opinions on what a good figure is.  Many guys would rather have Queen Latifah or Monique.  Alot of these men may like Beyonce, because she, at least, has curves.