Why do wives think that "striping" for their husbands is a big deal?

Question

I have news for you ladies....90% of men out there who have been married for at least 3+ years could CARE LESS about your so called "s**y outfits, trtying to "strip" for them, etc....it is a big waste of time!

Men who go to strip clubs are there to see NEW women as a cahnge of pace. The last thing they want is to see a women they have seen naked thousands of times dance around like a w***e!

This time would be much better served making a good meal and then getting down to some hot s*x.....save the drama for your momma!

Answer 1

I am a mother, and married woman.  I have to agree with him on his comment in regards to the strip clubs.  My hubby and I will read those d**n cosmo mags and have a few drinks....then act on their advice, and we are both laughing hysterically because it is so stupid.  Mind you being s**y for your man is good too, and it makes you feel more sensual - and that is a good thing.  But in our experience, the strip clubs are an atmosphere high.  They are new females, h**l I am a girl, and I go their to enjoy the beauty - why wouldn't a man.  It gives the mind a work out and that makes hot s*x with the spouse :)

A lot of women think the candles, and romance is a turn on...it isn't!

They are men - men are not into the mushy stuff all of the time.  Sit down and watch some p**n and m********e for him.  Get a little raw.

I know I didn't really answer anything - but great question!!!!

Answer 2

Was there a question somewhere deeply buried in this post?

Answer 3

maybe you are jsut jealous because you are the one that want to wear the s**y outfits ( homo)

Answer 4

obviously someone who doesn't have anyone to dance for him!  

Answer 5

Wow, you sound really prudish. Or boring. Maybe both.

Count yourself lucky if you have a wife that wants to spice up your bedroom life. Worry if she suddenly gets disinterested because most likely she is dancing for someone else.  

Answer 6

LMAO! those are some pretty interesting comments there but where exactly is your question?

Answer 7

90% is your way of saying, "I have nothing to look forward to and I must not be the only one."   Post your reference to that stat and some of us may believe it.

Answer 8

Hate to say it....spelling mistakes aside (and boy there are a bunch in there aren't there) but I kinda agree with you in a sense. The point of seeing strippers is to see different women (ie : not your partner) naked. Same as p**n. Doesn't make it right....it's just how it is.

>>>Spelling n***s. LMFAO. You can GFY, and then after that you can return to grade 7 and take some more english classes. Oh and also, maybe look into taking some classes on how to click on the "check spelling" button. Difficult I know, but it really does prevent the rest of the people here from thinking you're a bumbling idiot. Try it, you might like it.

Answer 9

Somehow, I think you're wrong.  If a man has never seen his woman do a strip tease before, it would be very exciting.  Anything that adds something different to married s*x is exciting, in my opinion!

I'll bet you want your wife to cook that meal for you, too, don't you?

Answer 10

They are just trying to remain s**y for their spouses.  Why do you want to discourage them.

Answer 11

I don't stripe

Answer 12

I'm trying to figure why being intimate was such a big deal for my wife.

Answer 13

that's your opinion

Answer 14

well first of all my husband buys me s**y things to wear for him and when I do wear it he gets horny as h**l.So therefore I must be doing something right if he keeps buying it and watching me wear it.You are probaly just mad because your wife is probaly one of the ones that think she looks good but really you can't stand to look at her in something s**y but you think she looks disgusting.I know I look good and my husband is proud to see me dance around in s**y underwear,so you are sooooo wrong when you say our husbands don't want to see this.

Answer 15

Well, here is a news flash for you.  A whole lot more men than you think love it for a wife to so something that special for them.  It re-kindles the fire and keeps things from getting stale in the bedroom.  Personally, I love doing that for my husband.  Yes, we are still newly weds, but s*x can still get stale with newly weds.

The imagination in the bedroom keeps the spark going and keeps the s*x between those two without involving others outside the marriage. (AKA-affairs)

Answer 16

lol my fella would probably enjoy a proper cooked meal off my naked body and then kiss the burns better yes! lol

and i just think each to their own,

I'm not too happy with my body so don't like to draw too much attention to it so don't do the whole strip thing at present, but I'm sure when i have the confidence i will and he'll well get off on it.

as for strip clubs, i think i would enjoy going more then my fella because he knows how i feel about myself......

as for cosmo and OK etc i take no notice as they promote anorexia as far as I'm concerned.

Answer 17

When men go to strip clubs it is usually for the thrill of seeing something new or the male comraderie if they're with friends but that doesn't mean that they don't like seeing it at home too.  Strippers in a club serve one purpose and your wife flirting with you at home serves another.  Either way what concern is it to you who's doing what if it doesn't involve you?

Even though you suggest that the women not bother, my guess is that you would be the same person to then criticize the wives who follow your advice as lazy and uninterested.

Catch 22!

Answer 18

Okay, mate.  So, as tempers are flaring today, let's have a nice change of pace.  Would you please strip for us girlies and Youtube it for us? LOL

Answer 19

Where do you get your "90%" from?  Don't assume that because you feel this way all men do.  In fact, having their wife do a striptease for them is one of men's most common fantasies.

Answer 20

what is the question? and "stripping" has two p's

Answer 21

I don't read magazines I am a southern woman I dont have time for stupid girly magazines. My husband has a hot meal every night usualy a meal of his choice and we have hot s*x everywere we can of course limited to our Master Bedroom and private porch and bathroom because we have kids. But my husband picks out s**y outfits for me to wear and just the other day he asked if I would strip for him I agreed. he got oral mixed in with his lap dance and hot s*x after. So you cant tell me my man is not a happy man. Oh and I am not old or fat for all of you stereotyping A holes about southern women I am 22 and weigh 123 with size C. My husband is a very happy man :)

Answer 22

Oh my!!!  I surely hope your wife didn't do the stripping for you because here she is trying and then you are putting it down.  Women like that are trying to spice up their love life and men like you are not appreciating it.  What have you done for your wife lately that is if you are married.  

Answer 23

Have you thought that maybe, just maybe, they are "stripping" and "spicing things up" for themselves?

Seriously, there are two people in the marriage and in the bed, if this makes your wife happy you should play along.    Trust me, she has done PLENTY solely for your benefit.

Answer 24

I agree with you, Casual Poster.

It always makes me laugh when women advise other women to dance in front of the TV in a s**y outfit to get s*x.

LOL!!!!

ADD ON- Most of these others answers are full of c**p...take a look around you in the REAL WORLD, most women need to hit the gym, not the s**y costume shop!  I am not trying to be mean, but its true!

Answer 25

I dont think you can speak for all men...A LOT of men would still love to see their wives like that...It can still spice it up...Somebody must of done something to hurt you and you want to try to make us ladies think that our men will not want us in so many years...Well guess what you dont speak forall of the men.  So go on and worry about how to keep your own life happy and quit trying to make everyone else think it wrong...

Answer 26

jeez,

someone got a bad lap dance from their wife last night.

that sucks.

LOL

PS: Just wanted to add that i am not a stripper and if i tried to be, i would laugh my @ss off because i would feel so stupid.

And i don't think my husband wants to think of me as some coked out w***e who strips for money anyways.

LOL Val...so True!

Answer 27

Did you have a question?

Answer 28

I disagree - I've been married for 14 years and my husband can get enough of my "s**y outfits".  I never understood this - but if it makes him happy.  

Answer 29

over 90% of those responding to this post disagree with you. I for one would love to see my wife do a striptease for me. If it makes her happy to make me happy, then i see nothing but good things there. I hope you dont discourage your wife from trying to do something for you like this. Most guys who think they have control over their wives in suich manners are usually the first to have their women find their desires and needs met elsewhere.

Answer 30

"Men who go to strip clubs are there to see NEW women as a cahnge of pace."

I think not.  Men who go to strip clubs weren't breastfed when they were babies.  That, or their father never hugged them.  Either way, they're completed f!cked in the head.