Why do woman expect oral, but think its gross to return the favor?

Question

obvoiuusly i didnt mean all women. should have worded different. i was adressing the ones that do not recipricate

Answer 1

Why do you assume all women think and act the same?

If your woman is uncomfortable with giving oral s*x, and she resists beyond minor cajoling, then you need to accept this.

If you are comfortable with giving her oral s*x then it's up to you whether you chose to perform it.

Answer 2

My husband and I have an agreement, and that is to never do something the other person is uncomfortable with.

Answer 3

Nice generalization there!  Not ALL women feel this way...but apparently the women you have been so fortunate to be with do....

Answer 4

not all women expect oral

Answer 5

Who said we ever thought it was gross?  Dont make a broad statement based on one person's opinion.

Answer 6

some women feel they aren't good at returning the favor, so they don't .others just plain dont like returning the favor you are a favor returner or your not , and it could have to do with past experiences that caused them to not want to go down on their man in the present .

I happen to be a receiver more than a giver however, i order it from time to time it can't be one way all the time you gotta give back !

Answer 7

Your with the wrong woman.

Answer 8

Not all women. Some actually do enjoy returning the favor.

And what about the guys who expect oral but then refuse to give it? It works both ways, man.

Answer 9

I used to take care of my husband but, he won't take care of me...so now he gets nothing!

Answer 10

haha wow... i've always heard the opposite... why do men expect oral but wont return the favor... umm maybe its the girls you're with?

Answer 11

Well, I think I'm maybe weird, but I think that if you are in a relationship with someone, then nothing is taboo, as long as you both agree on it.  I'm all for trying new stuff with my bf, and often initiate it.  I think maybe women don't think about things the same way men do.

Answer 12

Im a woman and i dont understand what your saying. Its.....rude not to return the favor. you shouldnt ask for something from someone if your not prepared to reciprocate.  

Answer 13

Maybe your woman....  

Answer 14

I don't think it is gross. I perform oral s*x on my husband....now, getting him to do it to me IS the problem!

Answer 15

Not me... I make sure I return the favor.....

Answer 16

I don't think women expect it, it just happens as a form of foreplay. The act is not gross but asking for it is and it's a turn off

Answer 17

I love giving oral to my husband, if , for whatever reason I don't feel in the mood, I find it being a reasonable compromise. Then he owes me for when he doesn't feel like it.

Answer 18

Well I guess it depends, do you shower regularly?  I mean if it smells like fish, I stay away, if it smells like I have no idea, I would expect her to stay away too.  It is a really personal action and I take it as an honor when a woman is willing to go down on me.  I enjoy giving oral s*x to the woman I am with, until I feel she has been with some one else, then the relationship slowly goes down hill, because I can't really love the one I am with the way I would like to, because she hasn't been true!

Answer 19

Depends on the man some i have gave head to some i wouldn't must have something to do with you maybe you're not the stud you think you're bet your woman has in the past and will in the future give head to another man, that's if you split up i mean.

Answer 20

wow. if she thinks its gross to go down on you, then how would she like it if you told her it was gross  to you if you went down on her.? she is not respecting you.. there is alot of women out there, that like ot please there man down there inclding me, and have no problem..  as long as he is showered and dosnt come home from a long day having some sweaty you know what..lol then im all for it.. i would do the same for him..  i like to be freshly cleaned right out of the shower for him b/c its a good feeling, plus i feel better about  it.. see what i mean?

Answer 21

I love giving and I love receiving. My husband gives it to me as much as I give it to him. :)

Answer 22

Are You asking this question based on your relationship? If so

I don't think thats normal..Have you ever thought she might be

bi sexual?  

Answer 23

Who says it's gross?  You're talking to the wrong women!

Answer 24

From what I've experienced it's always the other way around. Girls are always incredibly surprised at my skill and willingness to eat them out. They always blow me first without flinching, like it's a given.

Answer 25

i dont think it is gross . if your partner think it is gross ,  take a look at your hygiene manners

Answer 26

I don't think it's gross to return the favor, however I receive more than I give because I very rarely can have an o****m without it, whereas, he will get one either way. This is probably the case with a lot of women because very few can have orgasms just from intercourse.  

Answer 27

Why do men do that?

It can go both ways, and it's frustrating and unexplainablele...

Guess I can't give you a straight answer.

Answer 28

What is with all the oral s*x questions today?? Man.....I can't wait to get home now.  My fiancee will be thanking you guys tonight!

As for your question-I love to give, and hardly ever ask for it in return.  He never asks for it but if I want to, then I do.  I never ask for it but he wants to, he is more than welcome to go downtown and have some fun.  Now in the past i have been with a guy that constantly asked for it and that just annoyed me to the point that I never did it for him.  How i look at it is it is a two way street.  The giver has to want to and shouldn't be expected to.  And the receiver should want it and not have to go through it if they don't want.  

Answer 29

I'm not like that with my husband.

I have ALWAYS returned the favor.

Answer 30

It isn't proper to expect it if you aren't willing to give it.

Answer 31

That woman wants you to force her to do it. If I had to guess she was forced to do it when she was VERY young and she enjoyed it and now wants to feel that excitement again.

You are around the wrong women, when you are around the right women you will be asked if you want a bj about three times a day.