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Why do woman feel used after s*x?

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I am with this amazing girl for about seven weeks now and since the last two weeks she feels used after we make love. I love her with all my heart, and i don't want her to feel that way. It is so bad that she goes to the sofa after i fall asleep. What can i do?

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what kind of question is that
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u jst suck her b***s at regular intervals then she wil feel nice
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the best thing to do is sit down and talk to her. ask why do she feel that way. and what can you do to make her feel different. to some women 7 weeks is not long enough before having s*x with someone and most women just have s*x with the guy to give them what they want to keep them happy from going to some one else for s*x. and the reason why she feel used is because most women want to have s*x but also have s*x when they dont want to just to keep their man happy. so she could be feeling guilty for having s*x after 7 weeks and just dont know how to say it. if you really love her. sit down and talk to her and do what ever it is that she wants to make things right. good luck.
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What you need to do is show her that you love her even after youre done. She might feel used if after youre done all you do is get off her and go to sleep. You can stay on top of her and look at her for some minutes in the eye and tell her you love her while caressing her. If you want to fall asleep after you can hug her close to you and then fall asleep with her.
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you love her, continue it, one day she will understand that she is not used but you love her.
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Probably because she doesn't know if your gonna stay with her or not.

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How hard is it to find a girl that's waiting till she's married for s*x.

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In my opinion Men enjoy the pleasure from s*x more than the actual emotional side of it.  Women see s*x as an emotional act more than just a physical one.

After s*x a Woman likes to feel loved with cuddles etc.  It doesn't feel very nice for a man to climb off, turn over and go to sleep!!

A little love and attention would do good.  Don't go straight to sleep.
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BECAUSE SHE IS NOT HAPPY A WOMEN WANTS MORE THEN TO DO IT. TALK WITH HER SPEND TIME WITH HER HOLD HER DO SOME OF THE THINGS SHE LIKES TO DO. LOVE TAKES TWO PEOPLE AND IF A WOMEN FEELS SHE IS ONLY NEEDED WHEN ITS TIME FOR BED. THEN ITS UP TO YOU TO BE THERE AND SHOW HER YOU REALLY LOVE HER BECAUSE IF YOU DONT SHE WILL MOVE ON LOOKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO IT. AND ITS NOT ABOUT s*x A WOMEN WANTS A MALE MODEL IN THERE LIFE TO BE THERE FOR THEM AND IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER THEN YOU MUST PROVE IT. AND BE A REAL MAN GOOD LUCK TO YOU AND HER
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do u last more than 15 minutes at least or 15 seconds?
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she probably thinks that your in it for the s*x only. make sure she KNOWS that you really love her.
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BECAUSE YOU'VE USED HER, not understanding traditional, real values and what it means to have real love for women. She knows this intuitively.

You do NOT love her, except you love her as you might love Baskin-Robbins (a selfish sort of "love" which is all that most men know).

Love involves marrying her before you have s*x with her.

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Okay...how do you treat her doing that?

Do you talk to her? Do you ask her what feels good and what doesn't (most probably you had, yourself being so concerned and all, but you should really sit her down and try to get her to talk). Do you treat s*x as if you were letting something go, or as a fun activity. IS she a naturally shy, someone unused to such close human contact? Is she feeling ashamed about something or irked? I think you should really talk with her.
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Ask her wat is her problem Ask her wat is up her but maybe shes tired after yall make love and plus maybe u sleep like a pig i don't know
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women and men differ in their committment into a relationship.

From the biological aspect, the man can behave like a butterfly going from flower to flower poking in and out. The female of the species risks getting pregnant and having to bear children and rearing them so them put more risk and more of themselves into the relationship.

You have been going out with this amazing girl. What you must ask yourself is what have you done to reflect her committment to you. Are you going to marry her? Have you bonded with her emotionally not just physically? I have no doubts about your physical attraction and certainly you have consumated your relationship. Have you demonstrated that you will do everything in this relationship towards marriage?

As a christian, we do not approve of s*x before marriage. That is to let her know that we will wait b/c s*x is the ultimate joining of two individuals and we must work on the emotional bonding b/f the physical bonding.

Since you have already skipped many steps your relationship, it is no wonder that she is emotionally distressed after the physical event. You have really in a way jumped b/f you could walk.

Do you hold hands w/ a girl b/f you have even asked her out? No. There is a natural progression of events both physical and emotional in every relationship. Talking, joking, eating, holding hands, hugging, comforting, safety. Etc. These are the progressions of emotional and physical aspects of relationships.

What can you do about it now?

YOu need to really talk about your relationship and what you need from each other. You need to be committed and prove it. It is easy to talk but you must back it up with actions. You should abstain from any more physical intimacy until you work out your differences in the emotional aspects. You may need to consult a counsellor as well. I highly recommend it b/c you are at a crossroads in your relationship.

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