Why do women always play the victims?

Question

I'm talking about things that happen,both men and women get killed,both men and women experience double standard,both men and women cheat but women think they are the only victims,why?

Answer 1

Because they are narcissists who feel that the world revolves around them and staying helpless makes them look helpless, thereby allowing them to continue to get attention and play the sympathy role.  They feel things only happen TO THEM and not TO ANYONE ELSE, as other people do not exist in their world (unless focused on them).  Everything in their relationships with other people is about them, and how they can use/abuse/get something from them.

Also, these people, male or female, may not have a conscience or any guilt or morals (the extreme ones).  Some are just spoilt, stupid and sheltered as they have been raised to expect the world offered to them on silver platter with their prince/princess complexes and sense of self-entitlement.  They usually haven't broken up a sweat or had to do anything hard in life and wouldn't do something that was 'beneath' them, aka. their own laundry, getting a job, driving a car, makign their own dinner, getting a degree, etc.  These people expect the world of others and think it is a privilege to have it offered to them (the doers should be so thankful and are so lucky, like they are some Paris Hilton or Mel Gibson type).

Not being a victim means being a survivor, someone who values success and  hard work and is willing to go on whatever the circumstances.  Realists who deal with life and believe in merit and effort, not in feeling sorry for themselves.